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Went out for Day 24 today, what do you want for your birthday. Didn't get one approach done. I'm seeing a trend with me lately. For drills 20-24, don't want it to be this way, but the first day or two of each of these drills I've gone out and hardly got any approaches done. I go out lately, first or second day, and I walk around and feel the significant AA welling, and try to figure out how the hell I'm going to do this crazy drill. Then on the second or third day I've figured it out, sometimes to the point that I smoke the drill, quickly and easily.
Not ideal, I would like to be making more actual approaches the first day of a new drill. But at least I'm breaking through and finishing each one, can't complain that much.
Day 24 is a logistics drill IMO. By that I mean, that like day 16, stationary high fives, it helps a lot for this one, with the amount of work to do in a reasonable amount of time, to have a crowded locale, even more ideal if the crowd is younger. Younger ladies, late teens, early to mid 20s are happier. Less bitter, have more to look forward to, are more game, and frankly they are more likely to think I'm not out of their league. Therefore, to me, the very girls I want to hit on tend to be the easiest for me to do drills on. Also it's easier because I'm simply more motivated to talk to younger, hotter girls.
Tomorrow I go back to the BU campus for this one. I probably wouldn't do day 24 anywhere but on or near a campus.
Day 24 is testing me. Went out for over an hour, phenibut calming my soul. Mindset, not bad. Just.didn't.jump.in. Asking strangers what do you want for your birthday three times for some reason is dicking with me. Being lingeringly eye fucked by a ridiculously hot young girl that was with another guy didn't make it better.
Got out today, Newbury Street, and it started the same as the last two outings, nothing done, walking around not wanting to do the drill. Silly shit, like I didn't want to ask the question because I didn't care about the answer! Anyways, I finally turned my mind around, got myself in, and did the drill with a girl and then a few minutes later with two girls. All three of these girls were speechless, had no answer, just kind of like waaah? I, uh, uh.
Then I did it with a third girl, Asian, an 8+, dressed very sharp, mid twenties, professional, confident walk, I said hey got a question, what do you want for your birthday. She didn't fucking hesitate, she said "you." I had the slightest hesitation because I was surprised, said "me? aw, you're so sweet. Thank you, take it easy." I've never gotten a number on the AA drills. I know it's valuable to wait. Positive reinforcement over and over. I met the girl of my dreams over a month ago while doing a drill, a BU girl, just amazing, stunning, sweet, she was definitely interested in talking, I walked away. I walked away from this one too. Then the fourth girl I approached was super nice, said a handbag, and laughed. I thanked her and walked away.
So I can do this drill. I had to cut it for the day for work reasons. I'm going to BU tomorrow and going to try to get some numbers- amount of approaches done, that is.
Day 24, what do you want for your birthday little girl. Two sets of 15.
With some phenibut, some hyper, I hit the mall, did 15 approaches in around an hour. That's all I had time for, I do the second set of 15 tomorrow. It was fairly easy now. The three girls I approached that were sitting down, looking at their cells, all three were speechless, intimidated. Could barely get a sound out of their mouths. Like I had woken them from sleep. The other girls I approached were more outgoing, some were like huh, and some gave cool answers. I did 7 or 8 challenges.
No problem, back tomorrow.
Day 24. I wasn't into it at all. I was walking around in a shitty mood. I decided I wasn't leaving, was going to do the drill. I kept pushing myself to just do it. And it ended up being one of the best days out I've had on the program. I got ten done, and initially girls were responding to my mood. But I decided I didn't care. And I didn't. I walked up to this 9+ and she wouldn't answer at all, not even "I don't know." No girl ever gives me attitude except non-verbally, ever on these drills. I'm intimidating. And I'm good looking. I just kept asking her what she wanted for her birthday. It felt great to not care, I used to differentiate, oh, hot girl. But now she's just a girl. Just do the drill.
Going to get more done on this tomorrow. Don't care how long it takes to get through a particular drill. As long as I'm getting something out of it, and it's not exactly the way I want it yet, I'm not in a rush to move on to the next one.
Wicked. I didn't realize you were doing the AA program.
I finished the program. It's a great investment of your time. I've been approaching 40-70 girls a month since the program, and it's a great skill to have. It helps with social skills in general.
Dime pieces still give me AA though, so I force myself to approach them when I see them. They're so damn rare.
It helps a lot with night game to. Out of all the guys I've hung out with, it's clear that I'm always the one who is putting in the work and most likely to get laid, and I feel like this is a quality within anyone's grasp, as long as they do the program.
Finished Day 24 today. It's pretty elementary with the drills sometimes you have to ask questions you don't really care about getting the answer to, but that still throws me even now sometimes. I didn't give a hell what chicks wanted for their birthdays. With all my sales experience I would think it wouldn't be tough to ask the question anyways over and over, but it was. Probably because it's chicks.
This day 24 really helped, I grew. Day 25 tomorrow.
Got all fifteen approaches done today on day 25, what's for lunch?
It was fun, confused the hell out of some girls. Like girls would look deeply into my eyes searching for answers, they were so lost. I felt cooler than every girl I approached. I felt like I did.my.job. But not quick enough, took a couple hours, back tomorrow to do it again.
Finished day 25 what's for lunch.
I'm committed to doing pretty much every drill at least twice through. If the drill calls for 15 approaches, I'll do 30, sometimes more if I'm still not feeling good about the drill. The consequence is that I get bored doing the same drill over and over. Today was that. I didn't want to do it, I had no interest asking the question, and when I would get an answer I would try to get away even if the girl seemed to want to talk, just wanted it over with.
It's a price I pay. I want it done thoroughly. But every day, with every outing, I'm getting a little better, and permanently losing a bit more AA. Every week, I can tell I'm better than the week before. So I deal with sometimes feeling bored off my ass.
Day 26 Who's your daddy.
Hit some phenibut, and walked for over an hour around a crowded Newbury Street/Prudential area on a beautiful Saturday, trying to figure out how to even do one of this drill's approaches. To even get in there. Stumped. Issues about not wanting to be a stalker, and not wanting to make girls feel threatened (hasn't been a problem before on the drills). It's all bullshit, just AA, of course. The drill isn't that big a deal. It's probably sort of easy. But have to figure out how to make it easy. Will sleep on it. Back tomorrow.
Day 26, kicking myself a little. Walked 90 minutes Newbury/BU area, didn't get in. This is different for me, this drill. It's different to me than anything I've done before, attacks some big weaknesses. It's a good drill. I'll get it. Back tomorrow.
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