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Thanks dude! I went out today regardless of having a cold and a midterm Thursday. It went pretty well too. It was still a bit hard when there were a ton of people especially in between classes because people were in such a rush they wouldnt give me very good answers so after about 4 reps I went to the mall and I had better conversations with people.
I really cant wait for the high five ones because I think they'll be easier and more fun.
Wow this day was superrrr easy. This was a ton of fun though. The funniest engagements were when I'd get in girls ways and they'd laugh and smile like it was fun which it was. Then I'd ask them for a high five and they thought it was even funnier. However, there were some girls that just thought it was weird but would smile any ways which is really cool. Then some girls wouldn't smile or give me a high five, so I'd laugh and do it to the next girl. This drill was such a pick me up and it felt sooooo good. I did both sets of 10s relatively at the same time like 3 minutes to high five them all. I probably could drop it to just 1 minute if it was between classes which I might do just for fun because the drill made me feel so good and I laughed really hard a couple times because of how sweet and innocent the girls were.
Also, I just wanted to thank Chris for this program.. If you see this just know I love you like a brother.
Day 15! So this one went well today, some awkward responses but I could do it really fast. It was a lot faster the 1st time and then the second time I think I did it in less than 1 minute and thirty seconds. I don't expect the stationary high fives to be any harder and I think it'll be pretty fun again.
So midterms and work have been owning me up so doing the drills are hard. However, I managed to do this drill today with the stationary high fives. I went to the library and met a friend and right after I started high fiving people. Literally the people right beside us. I started high fiving people on the way out and it was super easy. The problem Im having is finding time. I was aware that at the beginning of this program that I needed to dedicate more time to this. I signed the petition so I am going to put more work into this because I know it's going to help me in the long run. So tomorrow I am going to complete these drills..
Wow.... I just had the worst drills ever. I couldn't do my drills. There were enough girls and enough time to do it but I could only sing the abc's to two people. I felt really disappointed in myself. I don't know if it was because I'm stressed lately or maybe that I'm not getting much sleep but I am going to make sure that I get enough sleep, I'm stress free so that I can preform better. I did 2 reps but I just couldn't come over my anxiety for any of the other girls. Tomorrow is a new day and hopefully I can be satisfied with my abc's.
So today I finally had the guts and time to go out and say the alphabet. I found this to be the hardest drill that I've done but it definitely increased my confidence significantly. At first I kept passing girls and passing them without talking to them and I discovered a strategy that really helped me start this drill. I just asked a really hot girl for the time and directions and then for some reason that got the ball rolling a bit. I started saying the alphabet and it was still hard but I was doing it. The results were super similar to the high five drill where certain people played along or some girls would be weirded out and some were mortified and totally hated me. One girl was so weirded out when she saw me again when I was studying the same night in the food court her and her friends were eyeing me and laughing. Then they past me in the food court while I was reading and they said, "Abc" to me. I found it really funny because they probably thought they were so clever haha. I felt like some five year olds were trying to bully me. It's ok though, I thought it was cute and it's not like they were super hot or anything so they probably don't get talked to by guys at all.
Anyways.. I am glad I finished this drill. I am going to do the challenge another day. The conversation challenges are going to be alot easier.
I think I am starting to take a strong step in completing approach anxiety and making anxiety my bitch.. I am quitting a video game that I've gone semi professionally in. I played a game called Starcraft 2 regardless of being super athletic and non nerdy. Semi professionally meaning I would spend copious amounts of time practising and I've actually made money playing the game by beating other players. This meant that I was within the top 200 of North America. However this is coming to an end. Through working out, trying to beat approach anxiety, doing better in school I've made the decision to quit playing games completely, at least at a professional level. I may not have done today's drills but now that I've quit this game/community I am going to have a lot more time to focus on things I care a lot more about like getting girls, school, and getting ripped. I've considered this for a long time many different times but this time I am determined to stop and focus on things that are going to make my future a lot better. After my midterms I am going to be back on track indefinitely.
Ok, I did the, "Do you like my shirt" drill and it went well. It took me a couple of days because of school etc.. my usual excuses. I am going to go after my class today to do the haircut one. Something that was awesome from the last drill was that some girls were actually expecting more like I was hitting on them and they liked it. They'd either say they really liked my shirt and then they'd compliment me again somehow or they'd say my shirt was cute. When I got those responses I felt more motivated to keep hitting on them which really reflects my progress in my opinion,e
Fuck, thanks a lot man. This is really encouraging, I just finished the Beiber haircut one and it was kinda hard. I don't know if it was hard because I have been so inconsistent with my drills or because the drill was actually hard. Acting gay was non-existent, I couldn't do that lol. I was able to act really serious and myself easily but gay was another question. I finished none the less but I got some weird responses. One girl wouldn't say how she was doing and as soon as I smiled and said Im getting the Justin Beiber haircut, she walked away. Another one thought it was the weirdest thing for me to ask her that and that It was a dare. Then she asked, who normally cuts my hair and I said my mom. Then she just walked away. These are the confrontations where I can't wait for the drills where I am supposed to say anything that I'm feeling cause I would've asked if she was on her period. What is wrong with asking where the hair salon is on campus lol. Now I do the drill today where I go up to people and ask where the restroom is. Some of the follow ups might be pretty awkward but for the most part these conventional questions are a lot more easy for me.
Did the bathroom drill which was super straight forward and I didn't really get any weird responses. I think this drill was just more about numbers which is good because I am getting lots of exposure to the ladies. I am going out tonight so that I can do the arm grab in the bar drill before I can't do it during the week.
So last night.. Went out by myself. It was really weird, especially since I kept seeing some of my friends but I wasn't really hammered like usual and I was on a mission. I was grabbing girls arms and trying to grind with some girls. The grabbing the arm part was easy and girls almost expected it. The hard part like chris says is going out on your own. Being on the bus alone while people are all partying with their friends and standing in lines. I can imagine that it gets a little easier as you go out more often and as I conquer AA. So today or tomorrow, probably tomorrow I go out probably to the university campus to ask girls where I can buy suspenders. I am going to try and fuck with them which is something I find really fun to do cause I'm a little bit of a misfit. I won a scare challenge in res for 50$ to make the best video of me scaring people in res. I won by a mile and it was so much fun.
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