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Sesame Street: I approached most girls in sight, this drill is pretty much just getting in there. I was a little nervous when leaving the house. Didn't have as much fun as yesterday. Some of the chicks seemed to find it funny, especially towards the end.
Birthday: Ironically today is my birthday, but I'm going around asking girls for what they want. The aim for every approach is to get in there, yesterday's drill was a big test for that. Today's test is a measure of your persistence/sticking with your guns, and I did real good with that. Tomorrow's drill is going to be more of the same as today but harder. I switched roles with a girl at the end, she was asking me why I did this and was really persistent, I should've left, but I'm glad that I stuck around to let her test me. I just kept the conversation casual, and not let her fuck with me. Once again, I got 0 sleep last night. I have all the signs of stress: sleepless nights, jawline acne, bad digestion. It's obviously the AA program; I'm having fun, but it's a grind.
Lunchtime: You would think college chicks would be spontaneous and quick thinking but I guess today is not their day. I had fun messing around except I felt bad for this one chick who seemed to be the bookworm type: shy, a little awkward, cute, modest clothing, probably doesn't go out much. She was warm to my approach, but sorry babe, I'm doing drills. Reactions don't mean shit, but based on other journals, guys received more favorable reactions with the birthday drill, but for me it was the opposite. Interesting. I'll repeat the birthday drill tomorrow and then I'll do this drill the following day. Slept like a baby last night.
Lunchtime: I got a late start today, I don't think I got as many reps as yesterday, but still a good amount. I wasn't moving as fast for the first 5-8 reps, but after that I was cruisin for the rest of the day. I'm going to do the birthday drill tomorrow.
Birthday: Did this at a couple bars/clubs. I felt little to no anxiety while getting ready and when I was out there. I did hesitate before my first rep and once more in the middle of the night. Doing this drill at night renewed my perspective on night and day game. The differences are trivial: noise, alcohol, clothing. The only big difference: night time has girls standing/dancing in groups while many girls are alone during the day. Also, touching at night is empowering. Also, when I was talking to the first girl a guy in her group tried to cock block me, no surprise, I'm obviously not there to score, and I left because that's my job, but it got me thinking about what I'll do when it's for real.
Arnold: Felt almost no elevation in fight or flight response, however, I didn't move as fast as I usually do. I was persistent, except for the first rep when the chick said she was waiting for her boyfriend; should've pushed through. Some said they didn't want to play, which was an acceptable answer for me. One said her dad is dead, I said sorry, but I didn't apologize, there's a difference, the former expressing sympathy while the latter coming from a position of weakness. One chick said she remembers me from a month ago when I asked her about wine. Shit I cant even remember a chick I approached 10 minutes ago. Its satisfying to have maintained a strong frame from the Birthday-Arnold drills. I haven't apologized once, I haven't said I was joking, I don't say anything really, I leave, except for one conversation I had after a Birthday drill, but even then I didn't say much. Repeating this drill tomorrow.
Arnold: I started fast, there wasn't a lot of traffic today so I had to hustle. I didn't have fun with this drill until the 7th or 8th rep. When I started having fun with this drill, my vibe changed on the dime, and I noticed the interactions were much better. Reactions mean nothing is the rule of this program, but I couldn't help but notice a big difference between the interactions when I'm having fun/good vibe versus when I'm pushing through the drill. Me with a good vibe equals to chicks being very receptive: touching me, biting their lower lip, reaching their hand out to shake mine while I'm talking. Vibe is probably the same thing as social momentum/freedom and/or swag. This is something I'm noticing and not declaring as truth until I have more experience/results. Maybe it's just mostly looks and availability. We'll see. I understand how those two work but vibe is something I have been seeing/thinking about a lot lately. I'm glad I took the day off yesterday, I felt like shit, no energy; today I woke up feeling pretty good. Gonna repeat.
Where's the Beach?: I was looking forward to this drill for a while. Tapping a girl on her shoulder while she was walking in my direction was an initial challenge. Flexing was cool. I'll repeat tomorrow.
Where's the Beach?: This drill is the shit. If I could, I would wear a life-guard tee, bathing suit, flip flops and shades to be even more of a douche. I had coffee and had a bad case of the jitters, gotta cut that out. There was one rep that disappointed me a little bit, don't know why I felt that way, I have come to terms that I'm not invincible and shit will happen. I have been slacking in bunch of other areas: diet, fitness, online dating, too much coffee, drinking alone, not hanging out with people, etc. I'm gonna keep myself accountable and turn this into a life-style log. What I can't do is be a bum and disregard everything else, even though the drills are my #1 priority, the whole point of this is to beat AA so I can incorporate approaching/getting laid into my life.
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