This is an opinion website that offers information of a general nature and none of the opinions should be construed as advice. Nothing contained within the site is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to Good Looking Loser. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals.
Affiliate Disclosure: At absolutely no expense to you, if you make a purchase, we may receive commissions from some links on this website. That is how our community supports itself. I don't recommend anything that I have not used personally or believe in. Thanks!
Bieber: Today went well. There was one rep that left me feeling uncomfortable after I left, its that awkward blood raising sensation you feel in your face and head, I haven't felt that in a while. I didn't sound nervous during the interaction. I didn't have to take a break because of it though, I recovered quickly and continued approaching. Gonna repeat.
Bieber: Did better today than yesterday and the day before. The come down from exposure therapy is like a massage around the brain and I feel tension in the occipital area (upper back part of the neck)
Bathroom?: Did better today than yesterday. Still one of the tougher drills, but a good challenge. Today is more proof that the choice of words means little. I couldn't take myself seriously once I got social momentum; its more fun that way. Gonna repeat.
Bathroom?: Didn't do as well as yesterday. Did good but I have higher standards for myself. Did a lot of reps but didn't put/push myself through as many adverse situations as I usually do; my heart wasn't quite in it today. I don't acknowledge reactions, but the negative ones sting less and less. I still think about the negative reactions once in a while. Gonna repeat.
Bathroom?: Did good today. I did the first 20 reps quickly, not as fast for the next 15, then I picked it up again for the next 15+. I lose some enthusiasm for the third or fourth day of a drill: between certain reps I can sleep walk through it, at certain reps I have to push myself to do more, and at other times I have fun with it.
Squeezzze: Tonight was tougher than I anticipated. I've gone out alone before so this isn't foreign to me and I wasn't nervous while getting ready, which is weird because my nerves run when getting ready to go out during the day. I walked into the Marriott to use the loo, and I saw 4 chicks at the bar, but I balked. Then I went to a popular bar, did 13 reps in 15-20 minutes. Not bad, but I expected to cruise through this drill, not the case here. I felt some AA and had to push myself, could've and should've done more reps and moved faster. I did 2 at the bar next door and 2 at the bar/restaurant next to that. On the way back to my car I felt obligated to go back to the Marriott, I saw 2 of the 4 chicks from before; I did the reps and left. Did this drill without a drink. I plan on spending more time going out alone at night before this is all over. In hindsight, I shouldn't be surprised of my anxiety, the reason why I quit the first time around was due to my anxiety getting the best of me when I went out at night for real; it made me question all of my progress/work on the program, confirming my initial fears that I was speeding through the program instead of burying my anxiety.
Squeezze: It was pourin like a mother fucker out there so I drove to another city to do drills; it was actually pretty fun to go somewhere new. I hesitated before my first rep, I felt anxiety and waited for 10 minutes by the bar, and I also hesitated for 2 minutes before my 4th or 5th rep. After those early hiccups I gained social momentum and did well for the rest of the night. For the purposes of exposure therapy I did a little extra for this drill over the past three nights: I squeeze, make eye-contact, listen to her for a few seconds, then I leave. Next time I go out I want to be able to get in there and gain social momentum after the 1st or 2nd rep, or at least this is something I'll work towards to.
Suspenders: Today is the most fun I've had so far. I was just vibin the whole day, was really into character, enjoyed messing around with those chicks; almost all of them bought into it. I got 0 sleep last night, my sleeping pattern is completely out of whack.
I'm just fucking with her
I make the most progress by going through the most difficult situations
The GoodLookingLoser.com forum offers visitors the ability to exchange information and thoughts. Nothing contained within GoodLookingLoser.com forum is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to GoodLookingLoser.com or of Goodlookingloser.com itself. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals. Visitors are to make their own independent inquiries before acting on any information contained within the website forum.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.