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Got any advice for the eye contact drill? This shit is fucking stupid.. I don't know if it's my anxiety acting up but it goes like this, was that enough eye contact? Was she even looking at me? Is she hot enough.. Idk and even sometimes when I do get eye contact it happens so fast.
God this drill is dumb.. Been on it for like a week and I try to do it each day despite having exams but I always pussy out like no other drill.
Yum Yum: Got in there, stuck to my guns, have been doing so for the past four days; gotta keep that up. Felt little anxiety. Felt social freedom/confidence. Worked on girls near/next to each other. I approach groups, couples, moving, sitting, all types; gotta keep that up. Going to repeat.
Yum Yum: Got in there, stuck to my guns. Felt little anxiety. Chilled out for a little bit. Felt social freedom. I have done less walking/waiting around in-between reps, and done more rapid fire; gotta keep that up. At this point, all of my anxiety is from fear of being watched and judged by people watching and listening to my approaches. I've forced myself into those situations and will continue to do so.
Movies: The Metro causes me more anxiety than any other place. I have done reps there, but before I advance to the next drill, I'll have to kill it there. Otherwise, I did good today but I can do better. Gonna repeat.
Mr. Nosy: Felt a little anxiety. Felt social freedom. Today gave me more proof that asking a bunch of questions is fine; all you need to do is talk. Someone on their log said that they would feel more comfortable doing a direct approach instead of drills, I feel the same way, but that's probably how it's supposed to be, and I'm gonna see this program to the end. Gonna repeat.
Romantic: I did good today, but the last rep is bugging me. It was on the Metro, rush hour, so crowded that everyone was touching shoulders. I saw a chick as soon as I stepped on and got in there, however, I didn't finish the rep; I caught everyone's attention, I wasn't nervous for the walk-up or during the conversation, I was just kind of fed up. Not the right thing to do, so next time I'm going to put myself in that situation again and finish the rep.
Wine: I didn't feel nervous approaching today and am starting to care less when other people watch. Whenever I do rapid fire my brain/head flares up and I feel a rush or a high, it's what makes me tired at the end of the day; its more slight now, not as intense compared to days before, and my blood pressure is not high. Mr Q referenced me as an example of what not to do for the AA program, it stung, but its true, all I can do from now on is push myself.
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