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Mr. Sunshine: I didn't feel good or bad today, don't really know. I did a lot of approaches pretty quickly all the while feeling the same from beginning to end, except there were two approaches that made me feel uncomfortable/annoyed; I didn't make eye contact for one of them, I just didn't want to be around her. Today's performance showed me that I've got a lid on this AA, I just have to seal it for good. When I did 'get in there' and 'rapid fire' back in Weeks 2-4, I would get a lingering rush that unnerved me and I would have to push myself to embrace it; it got better with more exposure therapy. Today I just subconsciously, semi-consciously, suppress it before it overtakes me even though I wasn't in a good state. I'm not afraid to give compliments but they're not natural to me. I don't think it came off as genuine because I wasn't in the most upbeat mood.
Diet and exercise were good. Didn't message anyone.
Clumsy: The script was so awkward it was funny, especially when going from directions to "I fell" then to a compliment, it all doesn't flow, but it doesn't matter. The main trap with this drill is its easy to fall back to Mr. Funny Man. At first I had a hard time taking the lines seriously so I made a conscious effort mid way through the day to become more serious, low-energy, and aim to have the chicks be concerned. Several times I broke character, but its much better to not take yourself seriously than to be a bitch who doesn't approach. I let several chicks walking in my direction pass by me, but I made up for it later and had a real good day overall.
I didn't put this earlier, but I had a stretch where I drank a lot, and when I wasn't drinking, the urge to drink would be on my mind. This program is supposed to make all your problems come to the surface. In the past I was like a seasonal drinker, at certain periods I would drink a lot then I would stop and not drink for a while. Hopefully that is still the case, but the urge is stronger than before.
Banana Phone: This one takes the crown for weirdest drill. Its pretty hard on paper but today is my best performance so far. I wasn't even smooth for most of the time, I messed up the lines, but I got in and got out as planned. I was able to separate the goofiness from the sincerity, and the compliments felt more natural this time. Its not easy to have two mindsets at once. I convinced a group of three that there was a phone ringing. My fear of being a pussy is greater than my anxiety to approach women.
Slacked off at the other stuff. I think the main problem is that I live with my parents. I had my own place when I did this program the first time and I was able to get other stuff done, although I didn't push myself as hard the first time.
U Mad Bro?: I performed well today even though I didn't feel my best. This drill on paper is easier/about the same as banana phone, but you're not going to feel the same everyday. I'll repeat this drill, and as usual, will do better tomorrow.
U Mad Bro?: I was like a sweating zombie today. The heat/humidity was unbearable, but it served me well though because I was trying to be low key/low energy. I'm not sure if this is intended for these drills, but it seems like almost every chick is more focused on the goofy lines instead of the compliments, too bad. Overall I did much better today than yesterday.
College campuses. 4 year colleges and community colleges (the best places to go imo) 3 of them I go to.
Streets with a lot of restaurants, bars, shops; you can walk into those places as well.
These are the places where I've done drills. Also, I have driven half hour to another mall to do drills. I once drove two hours away to do nighttime drills because it was raining in my city. Call me crazy or dedicated, but if logistics aren't in your favor you might have to suck it up and go to the same place everyday or be willing to spend cash and time on transportation. Since the early drills only have you do 5-10 approaches, spend the rest of the day exploring your city and see which places are legit.
4 malls and 3 college campuses!? holy crap you are lucky you live in such a great city, probably boston or chicago from the details .. there is only 1 state college in my town but its summer session and you rarely see to many people .. i only have 1 mall that has decent amount of people and a theaterr with a few shops, i am 18 so i cant do bars lol
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