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Nerd Glasses: Took a little effort to get in there initially and get the day rolling. Didn't have as much fun. The main challenge is tapping the shoulder but its nothing new for me. Repeating tomorrow.
Ran 30 min in the morning. Eggs for breakfast & dinner. All good until I ate a carton of ice-cream. I'm meeting a chick next week, messaged a bunch of others. Went to bed real late but got good sleep.
Nerd Glasses: Had a lot of fun today, wasn't nervous while getting ready. I feel a little bit like a dickhead when I tap a girl's shoulder, say "Hey, I have a question?" then walk away. I treat it like a kids game, kind of funny, even funnier when they follow you around after. Pretty funny drill overall. Repeating tomorrow.
Ate eggs before running for 25 min. Had a burger with the bun for dinner. Didn't message any chicks. Sleeping in late, I will need to go to bed earlier.
Nerd Glasses: Did good today and had a lot of fun, more of the usual. In the past three days it seems like every other girl was wearing nerd glasses, funny how it works that way.
I ate rice yesterday; rice and beans has helped my digestion but its time to cut carbs out of the diet. I also went to bed real late again. Messaged a bunch of chicks, forgot how many, nothing came through. Also, whoever is following this, this section is a log for the previous day, not today.
X2 High-Five: I was super today at the most expensive mall in America. Getting in there wasn't hard, I felt awkward at times, but holding your hands up and getting the girl to do her part was hard. I don't remember the exact total, but it felt like I got a double high-five for every three or four approaches. I'm going to do this drill again tomorrow.
Didn't work out yesterday. I did eat carbs: rice in the morning and muffin before I went to bed. I got up late as well. I messaged a few chicks on pof, don't remember how many, none of them took the bait.
X2 High-Five: Each drill pretty much feels the same once you get rolling, you just have to get in there and adjust in the beginning, but this drill feels a little bit different. I'm not nervous for the walk ups but I feel awkward after I leave, even for the ones when I get a double high-five. I've felt awkward before, but no drill has repeatedly made me feel that way until this one. I'll repeat tomorrow.
Didn't work out, diet is shit again, went to bed late again, didn't message anyone. I won't get back on track until next week because I'm going out of town.
X2 High-Five: Today felt much better. I might have exaggerated the awkward feeling from yesterday. It was like 5 awkward walkaways out of 30, but it was still probably more than all the previous days combined. I didn't get in there in the beginning but I did good/rapid fire after my first rep. You have to be all in if you want to have fun with this program, and make progress. Getting started is usually the toughest part. I approached a deaf girl for the first time, got the high fives from her.
I have to go out of town for a family get together. I'll be back for drills on Monday.
Hit & Run: I went out for happy hour, it seemed like there were more bars and restaurants than chicks, maybe I went out too early at 4:30, but no big deal, there were still enough to get the job done. Getting ready to go out for the day/happy hour is different than night. No one thinks twice when you're out alone during the day, and there are people who drink alone during happy hour as well, not many big groups at least from what I've seen. Some of the places I went into had more servers than chicks so when I did the drill all eyes were on me. You're going to get a lot of attention during happy hour, especially at places that are quiet and with few people. Also, another thing I notice for night vs day: when you approach during the day, you can leave and its over. At night/happy hour, a bar/club/restaurant is a closed venue. There's no walking away after doing the approach unless you leave the place entirely. Ultimately, this shit is all in your head, and none of it matters when you get in there. I did good today but I let a few opportunities pass. I'll have to go out again tomorrow.
I spent the whole weekend drinking and eating shitty. I'll be back on track from now on.
Hit & Run: I went bar hopping for happy hour and most places were packed. There are more pairs compared to night time. In terms of quality, quantity, and ratio, happy hour is way better than night time, at least today and the several other times I went. I got tense when my 2nd rep got peeved and I stuck my hand up awkwardly like I was saying hi, I said "nice" and walked away so its all good. I moved pretty fast, not as much standing around, but I gotta do more reps next time. One habit I'm going to break is restroom visits in-between reps; I was good with that today. Gonna repeat tomorrow. Whether it be happy hour or night time.
Last night I had a semi-date. I went to my brother's graduation and a family friend was there. She was digging me and we clicked, very nice girl. We had dinner after but my family was with us. I was debating with myself whether I should've asked for her number or touched her; I did neither. My family knows her better than me, so there's that. Also, she ain't the pump-and-dump type and I'm not ready for a girlfriend.
Hit & Run: I did pretty dam good tonight. My nerves crossed my mind a couple times but it disappeared just as quickly. I spent most of my prep time thinking about other things even during the drive and walk-up to the bar; I was more worried about the Cavs vs Warriors game; I was almost at complete ease. I went to three bars/clubs. Excluding the walks between the three, I did 28 reps in 10-15 minutes; almost no standing around and only one restroom visit. I forgot to say "cute" after "nice." One chick had the most solid bicep I've ever felt, it wasn't bulging big, she wasn't even flexing, and dam was it impressive; I let her know it as well. I'm gonna kill this drill this weekend.
I messaged a few chicks, talking to one right now. My diet is on point so far. I slept good last night.
Hit & Run: I really didn't feel like going out tonight; was tired and lazy. Anyone can go out and do well when they're feeling good, not many go out when they're not in the mood, so its these type of nights where you can make the most progress. I went to three bars: two were bumpin and the third was quiet/mellow. Did about the same amount of reps as last night in about the same amount of time, maybe a tad bit quicker. Gonna repeat.
I had this huge craving for sugar before I went out. I think its because I didn't eat until three or four hours after I woke up.
Reflect: Not in the mood to go out tonight. I'm not afraid to go out alone anymore and I have little to no AA when I walk into the bar and scope out chicks; I've turned the corner on night time anxiety this week. It's been 61 days into the program, 8 of them at night/happy hour, and 4 off-days. I've made 2000-2500+ approaches; few of them memorable. For you guys who are afraid of bad reactions, only 2 of them went ballistic on me.
I've made the most progress in week 2. The concepts 'getting in there' and 'rapid fire' put me through a head and blood rush that was unmatched by any of the harder drills from Weeks 3 and 4. Even when I was saying something stupid, like 'who's your daddy? or the ABC's, none ever hit the same nerve as when I asked five girls for the time within a 45 second window. I still apply those concepts but it's nothing like the first time.
I don't even know what drill was the hardest. Maybe the 'Super High-Five' one. All the drills feel the same once I got rolling. Until recently, I have been slacking on everything else, including online dating. I've only had one date and it didn't even come from online. Its not even close when comparing 'Day 4' to now, even more so compared to the first time I did the program.
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