TOPIC: Andrew aka Noodles journey to beat AA

Day 23 Done
"Sesame St"
This was an easy drill. Most girls who knew 'Sesame St.' just smiled, some actually tried to answer where it is. Overall, very light, funny drill.

Day 24 Done
"What do you want for your birthday"
Lessons learned:
- Persist. I didnt think I could ask 30 girls this 3 times, but I did.
- Keep persisting. Eventually, they cave, because they wanted to cave from the beginning, just testing your endurance
- BE COOLER. I felt that the girls who were emotionally balanced would not only tell me what they wanted for birthday, but asked me back what I wanted for my birthday. At that point, I can't deliver a lame answer like, a vacation, or a car, or a dog (which most of the girls wanted). At that point, my answer should be fucking A, what I really want, like "I want YOU", or 10 pounds of Coke, or Party at the Bellagio Penthouse.

Day 25 - Done
"What's for lunch / supper?"
This was a tricky day for me. I was feeling like shit because I had a painful tooth-infection and a massive headache. Thankfully, I took an Advil and felt a bit better.
I hit about 10 chics, and it wasnt going well, and felt like going home, so I got on the train. But something came into me, and I got off at the next stop, and went back to my approach-location, and I approached about 10 others girls, 20 total, and finished the frigging drill.
Most girls either told me what they were gonna have, on the first try, or they told me "I don't know", and after asking 3 more times, told me because they were going out. So they really didn't know what they were gonna have.
I accidentally asked a fat girl, that question too. I didnt realize it at the time, but later realized that she must've got offended, because she told me that "I was annoying her"
She wasnt even that fat. But I guess she thought she was, and therefore, insecure about it.

Lessons Learned:
- Walk in with a smile, emotionally normal girls will return that smile.
- Shy girls need work to be opened up
- It is a numbers game, because out of the 15 girls I talked to, I felt that 2 of them were genuinely very interested in me. They both smiled really wide, right when I just looked at them, and they were both hot. Fack, I just didnt know what to do, so I ejected.

Where do you do your drills? (where did you give 10 high fives in 2 mins?)

Change wrote: Where do you do your drills? (where did you give 10 high fives in 2 mins?)

That one was particularly fast. I think I got lucky. I walked in to a Food Court, at lunch-time, and saw 2 groups of 4, high-fived all of them, and then I did 2 random girls. Done.
If you are from Toronto, this was done at the College Park Food Court, at lunch-time.

Day 26 - Partially done (3/10)
I had an appointment which I could not afford to delay, so I had to cut this one short.

Will finish this tomorrow at lunch-time, and will try to do Day 27 and Day 28, in the evening, as well.

Day 26 - Done - finished yesterday

Day 27 - Done - finished today
It was the 'Beach day'
When I started flexing, the girls started laughing, but they also stayed. I couldn't find very many stationary girls, so I just walked up to them, and hit them on their shoulders lightly with 2 fingers.
Also, there seemed to be 'One Direction' concert going on as well, so I after the drill, I also walked up to groups of girls who were dressed up to go to the concert, and asked them "Hey, I have a question. How do 5 gay guys walk?" Once they figured out what the answer was, they didnt get offended at all, but started laughing.

Day 28, 29, 30 to be done tomorrow.

Damn you're from the GTA to eh. There's a lot of Toronto guys on this forum.

Rousseau wrote: Damn you're from the GTA to eh. There's a lot of Toronto guys on this forum.

ya lol. wtf is up with this city. I lived in SoCal for a while - LA area - I do find a lot of Catholic girls in Toronto. Maybe there actually are less DTF girls here compared to America.

Day 28 - Done
Nerd Glasses - Did this at a mall. Most girls started asking me why I would want them. And I just came up with "I have an interview in IT", and I wanna look smarter. This definitely made them smile. But I felt like an entertainer.

Day 29 - Done
Super High Five
I tried this on about 15-16 girls, and only 2-3 of them did not super-high five back. This means, it was never me. It is never me. It will never be me. It is the girls. Some of them are just wired to be not fun, and to be not DTF.
There was a group of 3 girls, and I super-high-fived one of them. And then I raised my hands to high-five the second girl, and she goes "Do you know this guy?" to her friend who had just high-fived me. The second girl still high-fives me, and I walk away. As I was walking away, I heard the first girl say "He looked happy, so I just high-fived him".
At that point I realized, we have so much shit going on in our lives, and we all want an escape to happiness. All I need to be is the happiness and sexual escape for girls I should get mad pussy. Haha.

Day 30 - Done
Bar/Club - "Cute". This was pretty easy. I cock-blocked a few other guys while I did this. And most girls laughed. I pretty much did this to every girl, but I had no 'material' to follow it up with. In any case, I did my drill, without any fear. Haha.

Day 31 - Today
Just reflecting
Realization: You will only get laid if your desire to get laid is higher than your desire to 'have fun'/dance/'go to concerts'/validation/'making them laugh' etc., i.e. desire for anything other than getting laid.
How can I handle if the girl is cooler than me?
Should I stop NG, and focus on OG + DG only, esp. while doing 30 days of Discipline?
I am gonna post these up on the forum to discuss with you guys.

Noodles wrote: Day 28 - Done
Day 31 - Today
Just reflecting
Realization: You will only get laid if your desire to get laid is higher than your desire to 'have fun'/dance/'go to concerts' etc.
How can I handle if the girl is cooler than me?
Should I stop NG, and focus on OG + DG only, esp. while doing 30 days of Discipline?
I am gonna post these up on the forum to discuss with you guys.

Cool stuff. Funny that you had the same experience as me for the NG drill. You start seeing how some of those "pick-up guys" - stand miles apart from the girl and not ever touch. I felt bad for them when I did that drill (especially because I was one of them in the past, LOL). But it felt instantaneous good to introduce touch BEFORE saying something. It seemed to make everything else so easy.

Desire - yes. I think the most successful guys in Game have a strong sex drive. Insatiable even. Yet, sex is still "just a little fun" to girls. It's great and casual at the same time, I think. I try to have a super-positive and confident outlook on life, then sex is just another nice spectacle along the way.

NG, OG, DG while doing 30 DOD - I did that. Not totally easy, but you can sort of fit NG in. Mo - Fr: get up at 5 am. Sat - get up at 7 am (still within the interval and possible when you do NG on friday until midnight-ish) and Sun - get up whenever or not at all. Your cheat day. That's how I squared it.
However, DG approaches were definitely easier while on 30 DOD.
I'd do all three and then decide what is most fun and where your logistics are best served. Once your 30 DOD is OVER and you want to stick to the habits in there, I think it's ok if you get up later than 5 am. Some people have legit work schedules at night. They must be able to do 30 DOD as well.

Florian wrote:

Cool stuff. Funny that you had the same experience as me for the NG drill. You start seeing how some of those "pick-up guys" - stand miles apart from the girl and not ever touch. I felt bad for them when I did that drill (especially because I was one of them in the past, LOL). But it felt instantaneous good to introduce touch BEFORE saying something. It seemed to make everything else so easy.
This is absolutely great. I had some hesitation in the past, but after doing this drill, I felt fearless. I honestly didnt care about the bystanders, but saw a LOT of guys just standing around.

Desire - yes. I think the most successful guys in Game have a strong sex drive. Insatiable even. Yet, sex is still "just a little fun" to girls. It's great and casual at the same time, I think. I try to have a super-positive and confident outlook on life, then sex is just another nice spectacle along the way.

I agree, and I think its more than just sex-drive. I remember when I used to follow PUA stuff, I wanted to make girls laugh, NOT get laid. And guess what, I was always able to make them laugh. In a way, making them laugh is validation, and thinking about it changes your GOAL from getting laid to BEING VALIDATED. This is during the course of the interaction. When I have gotten laid, only 'getting laid tonight' was my focus. Somehow, I didnt realize I was not focusing on that enough.
The realization came from a very solid interaction I had with 2 spanish chics (from Spain) while I was out DGing this weekend. They even kissed me.
At that point, I should've asked them to hang out with me and my buddy, later in the night. But, because I was focussed on validation and making them happy, that thought didn't cross my mind until after. They were visiting, and I could've easily recommended a club to chill with, then after getting them drunk, taken them to my place and fucked at least one of them, maybe both. To get laid, you gotta focus on getting laid. Ahhhh.....

NG, OG, DG while doing 30 DOD - I did that. Not totally easy, but you can sort of fit NG in. Mo - Fr: get up at 5 am. Sat - get up at 7 am (still within the interval and possible when you do NG on friday until midnight-ish) and Sun - get up whenever or not at all. Your cheat day. That's how I squared it.

This is really impressive that u pulled it off. For me, I am gonna take a break from NG, and just do 30 DOD + DG + OG for now.
I have some other things to focus on, i.e. career, so I am gonna spend some time and energy there as well.

Week 5
Day 32 - Done - but will repeat
I did this at a suburban mall. The quality and quality of women/girls was dismal.
I also got my first crazy reaction today. I pretty much saw 2 girls and chased them down, tapped on their shoulder and asked for the time. I think they were ignoring me. I was expecting a negative reaction, but I wanted to do it anyway. So I did. They got mad, and told me 'you chased us down to ask for the time'. I was like yea. They she was like 'you are crazy', then I went 'No you are crazy' and left. Haha.

Tomorrow's plan: Day 32 at lunchtime. Day 33 and 34 after work.