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Day 6: Only did two sets. I asked two cute Filipina women who were probably really hot 10-20 years ago what the time was and when I approached the girl hid her phone from me like I was going to rob her. Both of these women were apprehensive about me asking them for the time and directions. To be honest, this was probably the worst interaction I've had during the daytime with women, and I've direct approached like 50-60 girls. I think they've been robbed or possibly butt-raped before by a white guy.
Chris is right when he writes about the honeymoon period being over with this day. I honestly felt like WTF am I doing. I'm asking women for the time and directions rather than going out to the club tonight to try and get laid?
This was going to be the summer that I started hitting up clubs solo 3-4 times a week. I chose to do this program instead because I don't want to feel socially stifled around women, or when approaching women at all. I can approach fairly easily, but groups of women, groups of men and women, and really really hot girls still give me AA.
Hey man. If you want to make your life easier with your AA journal, reply to your own post, that way every day will be posted in the same topic, ull be able to see all your posts on the same pages (like i did). Anyways, let me tell you from experience. Most asian women are very shy and socially unskilled in countries where they are immigrant status or if they constitute the minority of the population's ethnicities (important). Few reasons: the vast majority of their interactions are with other Asians who speak their language, secondly, yes any non-Asian guys will make them very self-conscious, to the point where they will be scared of you, will leave before u can talk to them, or will be very cold with their answers, and with eye contact. Any women will give you either positive/neutral/negative response. That being said, the point here is that Asians women in this context (if you're not in an Asia country) have much greater odds of giving you neutral or negative responses. Sometimes yes they will give positive responses, simply much less likely because of what i said earlier. So dont feel bad about this, and go on, kill this shit. Doing the AA program will not only kill AA, it will give you extra social freedom and ull know how to behave much better with women, well this is what im noticing myself so far. Just make sure you listen to Chris' audios, ton of knowledge.
Day 7 : I finished day 7 today. I asked one girl if she had the time and she was like "yeah I do." I looked in her eyes for a few seconds and then I was like "Can I have it?". Then she kept looking at me for a couple of seconds and then looked at her phone and then told me the time. It was kind of funny. Anyway, I'm happy to be done the first three days of drills. I can't lie though, for some reason I felt myself getting anxious when I approached a hot milf. It was because I contemplated it. Chris is right when he says that AA happens when you're thinking not when you're actually taking action. I asked the milf for the time near the last girl that I had asked. I thought to myself "who cares?" if she notices me asking someone else for the time and directions it isn't a big deal AT ALL. Half of the people don't really know you and the other half don't care.
Day 8 : Did one set of drills in Day 8 today and then I had a date with a girl from POF. I thought she was going to flake because she was making a lot of excuses beforehand but to my surprise she ended up agreeing to meet at Boston Pizza. It was my second date from POF and probably only my 5th or 6th date I've had. It went pretty badly because me and the girl didn't get along that well. Oh well. I'm not gonna lie, after the date I was feeling pretty shitty about myself. I was beating myself up for the date going poorly, and then I realized how much of a pussy I was being. After about an hour of sulking I was like "why am I being such a pussy about this?" lol. I've been told by a couple of different girls that I take things way too personally and I "read into things" and it's definitely true. I feel like I'm getting better lately because now I don't beat myself up for petty shit nearly as much as I used to.
I think for the next date, I'm going to do an experiment where I literally say WHATEVER I'm thinking regardless if I feel like she will be offended. No filter and no holding back. I've never done it before, so I might as well try it. Monitoring yourself and thinking of the right thing to say definitely doesn't work, so I might as well do the exact opposite next time.
Day 8 : I finished Day 8 today.
I was in a Starbucks shortly after finishing my drills and I talked to a girl briefly. She was about 31 or 32. She had a lot of interesting tattoos, and a piercing in the centre of her chin. She had short red hair and really nice green eyes. I struck up a conversation with her by habit and it was the first time in a few months where a girl made me extremely hard. We were flirting quite a bit, but I regret not touching her because I knew she would've been receptive. Tbh, I felt like I could've fucked this girl in the bathroom if the logistics were better. Next time I have an intense attraction to a girl like I did today, I'm going to see how far I can push the interaction. After I'm done the AA program anyway. She was a good example of a girl who was VERY available. According to my perception of things anyway.
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Rousseau's Journal Day 6
14 May 2014 22:37 #126073
Day 10: I finished these drills today. It was easy. There were a few really friendly girls that seemed like they REALLY wanted to sit down and keep talking to me. Anyway. I fucked my drug dealer's girlfriend this weekend haha. She's a hard 7.5 probably. She could honestly be a 9 but she has a drug problem and doesn't work out or take care of her health so she's kind of skinny for her height. It's funny. I knew this girl thought I was cool, but I didn't realize how highly she thought of me. She thinks I'm like this pimp gangster motherfucker and "I'm too good for her". This sounds hilarious to me, because normally I don't think of myself as being "too good" for anyone. It was bizarre hearing it. I fucked her in a Tim Hortons bathroom to, and then again at my house haha. Funny shit.
We were walking around together just hanging out. The drug dealer was really fucked up on Xanax and he ran off somewhere. Like he literally just ran off somewhere in an incoherent Xanax daze. Me and his girl were sitting in a bus stop and I was wired on MDMA and Xanax and I just kissed her. She's an extremely sweet girl with a pretty face, and I was just looking at her and then I kissed her impulsively without even thinking. At the time it didn't even feel like a conscious decision. After we made out in the bus stop we went to a Tim Hortons and called the dealer like 10-11 times looking for him but his phone was out of commission. She said that she was kicked out of her house and that she was living at her boyfriends house recently and she didn't have a place to stay so I invited her back to my place. Neither of us had our phones so I got the Tim Hortons guy to call a cab for us and while we were waiting for the cab I pulled her to the bathroom and got her on her knees and she gave me head, and then I fucked her from behind against the wall with my just functional speed dick haha. When we got back to my place we fucked again. It was decent.
She cheated on him. He doesn't get any other girls, he can barely function without her. She told me that he doesn't even fuck her anymore because he's always fucked up on drugs. But ya, they're BF/GF. Truthfully, I feel bad for the girl. She told me that she doesn't want to leave him because she is worried that he will either go to prison or overdose if she doesn't take care of him. She is basically his mother, like if it wasn't for her I think he would completely collapse and die.
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