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I've wanted to introduce myself for a while now. I didn't feel the need to post an intro or pictures, since I'm fairly confident I have an acceptable look and style for banging above-average looking girls (feel free to comment).
But as I'm now entering the "weirder" drills with Week 3 and beyond, I want to have my pictures up as reference in case I run into difficulty and need advice/encouragement, etc.
(Like just in case some chick I approach at the mall, oh I don't know, tries to beat me up).
So, I'm like old and shit-- next month I turn 49.
I don't consider myself your typical American guy that age. I'd say I have something of a mid-30's kind of vibe and look and a "Bohemian" kind of lifestyle. Which is fortunate because I'm generally NOT attracted to women I'm "supposed" to be with agewise.
That said, I don't want to look good "for a guy may age"- I want to have a good appearance/style, period
Before starting the AA Program, I had worked on approaching on my own and at times I've gotten receptive reactions from girls as young as 18.
I couldn't approach consistently however, and a bad reaction from approaching had the power to utterly deflate my spirits and make me feel intense embarrassment. So I realized this program is just the thing I need and decided to make the committment to see it through.
After having completed the first 2 1/2 weeks of the program to date (over a long period, and repeating many drills along the way), I can truly say,
Chris, you deserve to be nominated for a fucking Nobel Peace Prize for this.
It seems each time I go out, something unique and unexpected will happen, or I'll learn some valuable lesson.
I intend to use this log to report on the things that really stood out.
Just one example of something memorable...
...after high-fiving girls at the mall on a Friday night, walking back to my car through the poorly-lit parking lot, I saw a girl coming my way. I decided I was going to randomly high-five her just for the hell of it, since I had finished the required drills.
This girl was NOT amused by being high-fived in this situation....but then... immediately after a car pulls up next to me... the front window rolls down...uh, oh, this can't be good I'm thinking... and inside it's two pretty young girls (legal teenagers) all smiles with their hands up ASKING ME TO HIGH-FIVE THEM TOO!
Important thing I've observed:
Out of by now hundreds of girls approached...
Only ONE girl got bitchy and said "how come you're asking ME the time when there's SO MANY other people around you could have asked"
only ONE girl got bitchy and said, "you have a watch on, why are you asking the time!!"
So, whereas in the past a bad reaction would cause me to feel wounded, it's now becoming clear that a bad reaction on her part means SHE is flawed/damaged goods.
(Not to say it isn't scary as HELL at times going up to way younger girls in the food court as a guy my age; a lot of the goofy things in the program are WAY easier to pull off/get away with when you're a younger guy, trust me).
And yea, I've creeped out tons of girls. The way I see it women and men want the same basic thing. So in order for us to get what we BOTH want, so too will women have to learn to deal with some temporary discomfort of an undesired approach. If they get creeped out it's good practice for them too.
So let the social experiment- guy pushing 50 hitting on barely legal girls- begin...or rather, continue.
Maybe I can be an inspiration to other older guys that there is no shame in hitting on way younger girls.
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My goal with women is to develop the repeatable skill where, let's say I'm starting from zero women in my life-- I am able to venture out any Friday or Saturday afternoon with a reasonable chance to have female companionship (with a good chance at sex) lined up that day or night with a normal-weight, attractive woman with good style in her 20's. Then to retain some along the way in open relationships or sex buddies. I feel confident I can accomplish this.
The way I see it women and men want the same basic thing. So in order for us to get what we BOTH want, so too will women have to learn to deal with some temporary discomfort of an undesired approach. If they get creeped out it's good practice for them too.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
I'm 54 geez lol anyhow, it's funny with the younger women there are definitely 20 somethings that like older guys I used to eat lunch at a bar with a married 25 yo bartender and we always chatted pretty friendly and one day she said I should meet her at xyz for margarita's and I'm like wtf you're married. Next thing I know she's divorced and with another guy.
Found myself dealing with an angry boyfriend, posted about it
Did 8 more reps at mall this past Saturday. This time I figured out how to make the lines flow, so asking the same thing over and over doesn't come off so weird
Biggest anxiety at this point is "getting approached by security" and "being overheard by others". I notice the instructions don't say anything about "making sure bystanders are in earshot" but I am trying to push my comfort zone, in terms of difficult situations, others around, etc. The actual approach to the girl is the easy part.
The more interesting thing is the situations I'm still too intimidated to approach the girl. For instance, I spotted a hot cutie in checkout line of a Clothes store...BUT other shoppers were RIGHT NEXT to her in line...AND she was with two friends, one of them male. I just couldn't do it. I have forced myself to do approaches on girls standing in line at the Starbucks kiosk with others around. I can do it sometimes.
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