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So, I didn't do an intro, as I'm not a typical user here. I'm not really trying to get more girls, and I don't have any issues that I'm working on right now, though I probably could have used some help 20 years ago. I am interested in PE though, so here is my Bathmate backstory and how I know it works.
I'm 46 and married to the love of my life. She was pretty experienced when we got together. She had been with 12 other guys prior. iI had only been with 3 girls. I always knew my penis was a decent size, as sex toys and condoms were always a snug fit. In my early 20's I had bought a sex doll and was frustrated with it as I was too thick to fit in without hurting myself. Prior to using the Bathmate I measured in at 7.25" bone pressed and 5.5" girth. The only thing that I was unhappy about was my non-erect size. I would occasionally turtle, but most of the time, I measured in at 2" soft. I am an extreme grower for sure Several years ago, I had bought both an x30 and x40, as I had read that it could help with non-erect penis size. I didn't really stick with them much as it was not a big concern.
When my wife and I first started dating, she said she was happy with my size and said she had only been with one other guy that was bigger. I assumed she was trying to keep from hurting my feelings and maybe there had been others. A lot of times when we were having sex she would say "you're almost too much," especially if I had used some of those magic pills. I thought she was just trying to boost my ego, especially, since one time when we were out with friends, she described my size as "nice" to them. That seems like something you would say if you were trying to keep from hurting someone's feelings, though she may have been trying to keep from being judged poorly for liking larger sized guys.
So more recently we were having sex and she was telling me about one of her past lovers. I asked if he was bigger than me and without hesitation, she said, "oh yeah!" I asked if he was the biggest and she thought about it and said there was one other guy that was probably tied with him. She said, "at times, they were too big." Well, a little thing got stuck in my head and I decided to try the Bathmate more seriously and for overall PE.
So in secret, I started using the x30 and sometimes the x40, For the first month, I used them every other day, for about 5 minutes. I would just warm up my penis a little bit by squeezing. I tried to add jelqing with the pump at first, but that resulted in little red spots, and I definitely didn't want that. I can't always manually make myself erect, so, I've just been using it soft. I would use it in the bath some, but most of the time, I would fill it about a third of the way with warm water and just use it on the toilet. I stuck with that routine for a month. After that, for the next few weeks, I slowly started increasing the time in the tube to 10 minutes. After those few weeks, I started pumping every weekday, (rested on weekends) and gradually increased the time to 15 minutes.
Since I had started using the Bathmate in late October, we were really busy with work, holidays and starting a new business, so we didn't have much intimate time. Well, about a week ago, my wife started getting in the mood a lot. It was the weekend, so any temporary swelling had gone down. While in missionary, I could feel my wife pushing her thighs back against me and she started saying "you're too much!" with every thrust. A couple of days later we had sex again with the same result. She kept telling me I was too big. Even though the last time we had sex, she didn't say anything about it being too much, I could feel her pushing hard against me with her thighs trying to keep me from going all the way in. I can always back off and try not to go as deep, but if I do go deep, she orgasms hard and ends up a shaking mess for several minutes afterwards. I don't have any official current measurements but it's pretty obvious that the Bathmate has been working. I'll try to measure soon, but in the meantime, I'll keep pumping. I'm really curious how big this thing will get! I've continued to use the Bathmate in secret. To this day, she hasn't questioned me, about my size. I have also not tried using any medication, so that might be interesting to see what she thinks then.
I've also noticed that most of the time, my current non-erect length is around 5 inches. I actually hang now, instead of just sticking out a bit. Even though I didn't have a whole lot of issues before, I feel even more confident now. Anyway, if you are thinking of using the Bathmate, I can say, at least for me, it really works!
Thanks! I'm really enjoying this routine. We had sex again on Saturday. Even with plenty of lube I could feel her squirming around and pushing back on me. Other than at times saying I'm too big, she hasn't questioned why things are different. Perhaps the change has been gradual enough that she has not made the connection. I'm going to keep on pumping though!
So yesterday, I almost got busted. I don't typically wear a condom, but I wanted to go a little longer so that usually helps me last. Well, we were getting ready for sex and i pulled out a condom and started to put it on and it was too small to get on! I muttered something about it being a "thin" style condom and that they are usually smaller. Only thing, was, it was not a thin condom, It was really just a standard condom. So I scrambled through the drawer and found a large style condom and it went on. It wasn't much better. My wife watched all the struggle and didn't say anything. She doesn't seem suspicious (which I am good at catching.) I am going to take a day or two off as the last time I used the Bathmate, I went a little longer, and that caused some of the dreaded little red dots.
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