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Got a new date last year, things got serious and we ended up commited. Thing is: Along the relationship, I found out my partern digs big dicks.
And I just happen to have a 14x5.5 cm one. It works just fine and many times in a row... Even though, I am sure many of you guys out there, know how it feels like wanting to be up to your partner´s tastes... and not being able to.
That was silently killing me. Secretly, I went through the net in a very long month of researches, hoping there was something out there that could help me out. I bought those hand/massage methods of PE, started stretching, jelking and all that stuff you are already tired to know about. One month later I saw no results... except for developing a difficulty of keeping my erections - something I have never had! Found out my penis was tired of so many exercises and weeks later all was back to normal when I stopped everything.
Then I run across Bathmate. But I was afraid of its consequences, even after reading so many postive testimonials. I know how fantasious thing can get on the net. I frequently started poking at the GLL site and videos, convincing myself... studying the possibilities.
By the end of December I went to a urologist and opened up about my feelings, expectations and talked to him. He actually encouraged me when I took him Chris´ videos and others showing how the BM worked. So I finally decided to buy one. Another month of research ahead. Models, what is the best for me and etc. So X-30 would be it.
It was like chasing a fly in the dark: Bathmates are SO rare and hard to be bought in Brazil. Even through sex shop sites. And importing one was out of question, for customs tribute would be absurd.
It was March when I finally managed to put my hands on one. Ordered from the net and went to the store to pick it up. However, I had an unpleasant surprise when I got there: They had sold me the Goliath bomb instead and promised me whenever the X-30 was in stock again, I could have it. So I bought the Goliath, I wanted to make sure I wasn´t empty handed when the one I wanted arrived.
The wait took FIVE long and unberable months. And still, no sign of the X-30. Got my money back by returning the BM I had... and the chase started all over again. I found one - the last one on stock - on the net again and instantly, reserved it by calling the shop, in another town, to which I would happen to be traveling to in the next days. Then hell on Earth just started: The seller called back me saying they couldn´t reserve the bomb because another guy would be there to buy it. I convinced her to keep her word. One day later, I got another call from the owner saying two other people went there to buy it and she had to sell it because she was afraid I woudn´t pop up when I promised. I offered to deposit the money, so I guess she realized I really wanted that bomb, cause when I said that, she told she´d keep it for me and decided to trust me.
Two days later, hands shaking a little due to the possibility of the X-30 not being there, I entered the sex shop, introduced myself to the seller. The bomb was just nowhere to be found. I started to get angry when the girl called the owner and we found out it was hidden, since many people went there to buy it, after spotting the BM on their site, just like I did. Although I acted first by calling the shop.
I was SO RELIEVED when I saw the girl coming to me with that black squared box on her hands... You have no idea. It was there! And it would be finally MINE.
In the end of that same day I decided to use my BM in the shower.
That happened a month ago.
I wanted to describe all the eagerness I went through to acquire a X-30. And this is where my honest diary will begin.
I want to share my experiences and let all the newbees out there know that Bathmate may not be this "instant magical product" everyone advertises about. Maybe it is to some people. But not to me. At least not immedialetly. And I want to share my findings, my honest results, my gradual knowledge of using the bomb, the good and the bad of the process. And hopefully, by doing that, I also hope to learn and to hear from other guys, their experiences and opinions, if they would share them.
Maybe I am the only brazilian guy posting here but thanks anyway to everyone who´s reading this.
Good job, man.
Way to go in getting started.
Taking the first step is important.
I'm from Brazil and didn't have any of the troubles you had. But it's a good thing you didn't get discouraged.
Bought my BM (x-30) and my PF from the GLL links and got my SG from Chris himself (got in touch with him via e-mail and bought directly from him a new one that he had to spare).
Of course we have a dificult situation with our postal service, but you only have to wait a couple of months (maybe 3 - that was almost the time for the BM to get here). No IRS problems of tax of any kind. All the products came to my home just fine.
Anyway, keep it up, consistency is key.
I don't keep a log here at the forum, but i recognize it's a good thing.
You get feedback and encouragement.
Thoroughly enjoyed your story, and I think it is a testament to your desire to get a bigger cock.
A lesser man would have given up. Your dedication in pursuit of acquiring the BM, will translate quite nicely to the dedication that is required to build a consistent habit of PE.
I'm sure you're aware of this since you have done some research, but those "techniques" that you tried in the beginning that didn't work, you should supplement them with your BM sessions. You'll want to warm up your cock for the BM session with stretching and warming, but jelq'ing also go great with the BM session. All my best sessions have come when I have jelq'ing prior to the BM (it is a tad more advanced, I wouldn't suggest jelq'ing under you're fully comfortable under a large amount of pressure in the BM already).
Once again, welcome to GLL.
I encourage you to put some detailed thoughts/reflections of your daily progress with your PE- not just super basic stuff and your routine everyday. That is great, but if you supplement your thoughts to go along with it, you'll have a great log, one that will benefit many others in the future.
First of all, Chris, KingKratom and Feldson, THANKS for the warm welcome and nice words.
Feldson, I was quite surprised to see there´s someone else from Braziil here. There must be others lurking, I´m sure, LOL. BTW, how long have you been using your BM now?
My intention in writting this is helping others out. Sometimes PE with Bathmate is not so smooth and magic as many guys say around here. I have learnt that and I want to describe the good and the bad. Yep, you are right KingKratom, the REAL and detailed facts. I went through almost all the topics here in search of experiences like the ones I have had in the beginning and there was nothing to be found... so I felt lost.
Okay, that first post of mine was just an introduction. The diary starts right here. I have just entered my 5th week today, although I have kept notes of everything that happened during the BM sessions, thinking of writting it all here... and here we go.
* DAY 1 *
I was worried about the legitimacy of my X-30. I wasn´t familiar with any of it, so I went through this "Unpacking vídeo" on YouTube and did the whole thing being guided by that same video.
I didn´t acquire a fake Bathmate. Everything was there.
I decided to follow the GLL program for newbees: Using it every other day.
Wrote down many notes with the most important tips and took them all to the shower, extremely eager to get started... and at the same time very cautious about everything I had read before. I wanted to things right.
Went through the five minutes of hot water on my crotch and testicles, then filled up the bomb with water and attached it properly.
Tried to activate the suction... NOTHING happened. It was strange.
Another two attempts and it was a no go. The BM wouldn´t be "locked to" my crotch in any type of suction.
I thought there might be something wrong with the valve cap, and I realized its button was very hard to switch. I didn´t know if it was supposed to be that tight. Besides it would only move from the middle, to the right side.
During a fourth try, I finally managed to get a minimal, a quick suction. It had lasted for a minute maybe. And then I saw bubbles entering the body of the bomb and lost all of that suction. No need to tell that I didn´t get hung when I removed it from my penis.
This whole process took the 8 minutes suggested by Chris.
Truth be told: I was VERY clumsy in my first day. It´s normal, I know. I didn´t know how to properly handle the BM.
And needless to say, I was FRUSTRATED by the whole thing. Even though, the thought of giving it up had never crossed my mind.
Yeah, there probably are other people from Brazil here on the forum.
I know that some of the GLLs members come here to visit and stuff (try to get girls and such).
But, personally, I haven't met anyone.
There was a guy (sk88 - something like that, sorry, don't remember) that lived in southern Brazil (porto alegre, I think).
I live in the northeast region.
I've recieved my BM in the beggining of the year, but only started using it consistently a little after the carnaval (just before the world cup i was using the BM + SG, and by august I recieved the PF).
Seriously now, are you still having problems using the BM, or did you get the hang of it?
I can't believe how easy it is....
I never had a problem getting it on.
Actually there was a time (2 or 3 months of use) when the valve was a little off and i wasn't getting good suction, but I fixed it in 48 hours (I researched the treads and asked here on the forum).
Honestly, besides that, never had a problem with any of the devices.
Chris's videos and articles are 110%. More then enough to get the devices to work.
And the rest is usage. You have to try and use the device to see how it works best for you.
For instance, I'm uncut (not circumsized), and with the SG, the uncut guys have more trouble with comfort. So I use the protector cap from the PF and the foam from the SG (perfect for me - maybe not to other guys, cut or uncut... they would have to try it on...). Catch my drift?
That's just to give an example of a specific method of using all tools to a better PE.
1 - if you're still having problems, I suggest going back to the articles and videos (especially the NSFW ones, where Chris shows how to use it - there is one that he does with the xtreme, but you should be able to pick it up from there and adapt to the x-30 model). I've read a lot of articles Chris wrote, and many times. You can't expect to absorb all the leasons in just one take. Read it over and over again. Make sure you understand. I know the forum might seem as a place to get all the juice of GLL really fast. But some guys forget that most of what's needed to get you started is in the articles and videos. There's just and infinite number of leasons in PE, gym, girls, mindset, lifestyle, etc... No one can just learn all of it in one pass. Look at him, he spent most of his life to get where he is.
And that's how we should do it. Aspire to be like him. Go through the fire, trial and error. Live and learn. ;
2 - If you still have problems after revising the GLL contents, hit us up again. Here at the tread, we'll be here and try to help you out.
3 - From what i've seen, you might still have the black top of the valve tip on. Take it off. You don't need it. Than you'll be able to switch it either to the left or to the right. Follow Chris's instructions on the videos. 90% of the questions that I see posted on the forum could be solved be watching the videos.
4 - Sorry if I seem to be nagging about making sure that you cover the articles and videos first. It's just that I haven't had any trouble with it, and It was all from Chris's original articles/videos and by reading the forum (this should cover about 98% of every aspect of an intermediate/advanced PE lifestyle).
The final section is bigger than the normal section.
Anyway, good luck, keep up the log.
Feldsan, thanks a bunch for your inputs.
This is exactly what I was hoping to receive as feedback here, because it will help others to get a hang with the Bathmate PE.
I am not through that initial stage anymore, and I did exactly what you suggested me to do: More research. In a exhausting way, to say.
Even though, everyone is different and someimes rules won´t apply. Or they WILL, but the way you get to the rules or adapt is a little different.
Keep reading and you will see all the facts development.
Champ, I agree.
Though here are an inifinity of videos and articles, there is none actually showing the basics, pure and clean.
Real vídeos, I mean. Not animations.
After my innitial frustrated experience of not being able to achieve almost any suction, it was time to try again in the shower.
Warmed up till balls hang low, Bathmate filled with water, flacid dick inside and bomb attached to crotch.
Zero suction again.
Since that first bad experience, I went into lots of research here among the topics of the GLL Forum and Youtube. Then someone wrote that we could try to attach the BM to some other more rigid part of our body, pump it up so we could see if there was good suction out of it. I chose my right tigh and bingo, there was a good and strong pressure against my leg, the bom was really working... So the problem might have been me.
I realized my crotch area had some fat tissue right above my dick, in spite of my fit body. Maybe that would be the reason why the BM wouldn´t get stuck onto me.
The second time I tried, I managed to get more suction than two days ago. The feeling in my dick was funny - for the first time I felt something different!! But at the same time, the comfort ring was somewhat annoying.
There were two minutes of suction, then bubbles started popping up: I realized it wouldn´t last longer.
When the suction was over, I reseted the whole process 4 times, since Chris says in his newbee training, that we must have 8 full pressure minutes inside the BM.
When it was over, my penis showed no differences at that point. No temporary growth, no erection when out of the bomb, plain nothing. How could it show anything? I didn´t know how to use the device yet, so the exhausting research would go on, this time focused as well on my little fat bladder problem.
Thanks for your advice, guys. I would gadly follow your suggestion if only I had acess to a tub... which sadly, is not the case right now. So I had to find my way to adapt myself to a good Bathmate session. Keep reading, you´ll see the whole process.
* Day 3 *
So I found out the fat in um pubis won´t just go away, except for surgery. Out of question now, due to finantial reasons and BATHMATE reasons. Yes, Bathmate reasons. Being into surgery would take six long months to get my tissue healed. I would never stand the pressure against my crotch BM was supposed to give me, and worse, I´d certainly have damaged tissue on the way. Besides, it took me forever to put my hands on my X-30 and 6 months is a time I´d rather be enlarging myself instead of waiting even further to do that. I would have to live with that little fat for now and figure a way out to make the bomb work fine.
I was eager to get to the third session because I would try something new: Removing the comfort ring, as my researches revealed that it could make a big difference, according to Chris.
And boy, it DID!
This time I really felt like my dick was draining more blood to it. It didn´t get erect, but the sensation was very clear to me. The suction didn´t last long as well. The Goddamn bubbles started to be on the way again, and I ended up loosing the BM grasp. I restarted the process for three times. I had to find a way to stop the air entrance from raining on my parade.
Anyway, from that day on, it was decided that my comfort ring would be retired. I felt good because I was getting there, to the proper way of making the BM work as it should.
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