TOPIC: Should I focus on getting money or women?

Should I focus on getting money or women?

(I am not sure if this is the right place to ask this. I am sorry if this is the wrong thread)

So I have been thinking and observing lately. This is all just a theory and I personally do not have experience to back any of this up. It seems as if looks and game can get you laid but you still have to pursue women. I am willing to improve my looks and game in order to get laid but to be honest I know I won't have the drive to chase women forever. Eventually I will want women to come after me. I think there is only one solution to this problem and that is to get money.

From my limited observations in clubs around town. I see the finest bitches with some of the oldest ugliest mother fuckers. I am not hating on them I am just calling it the way I see it. I am assuming those guys either have hella personality or tons of money.



What do you guys think? Do women in general flock to guys who have money and status? If so should I focus more on getting money rather than spending endless days chasing pussy. I mean I will still fuck as much girls as I can in the mean time, but I really don't wonna be focusing on chasing girls forever. I think I should eventually spend my time on building my empire.

Let me know what you think.

I have to burst your bubble real quick:

If you inherited 20 million dollars tomorrow, women would not start flocking to you.

Money does not make women appear out of nowhere, you still have to find them. FAME will make women flock to you, but not money.

There's no getting around approaching women (this includes talking to girls online) if you want to have a top tier sex life, unless your goal is to literally become a celebrity. Hell, EVEN IF you develop a social circle filled with hot girls that come after you, you're STILL SPENDING TIME CHASING WOMEN because you literally built your whole social circle in the hopes of getting laid.

Millions of guys every year make the mistake of chasing money for the purpose of getting girls. It's a horrible, inefficient, roundabout way to get laid. If you just spent two years getting good with women, it wouldn't feel like "work" anymore. I feel like I barely put in any work these days and yet I'm surrounded by women. It's not some terrible burden and I'm constantly working hard to get laid. When you get good at this shit, it becomes easy.

You are male. You will ALWAYS be a seller in a buyers market (you're selling dick). Even a nobody hot girl has more sexual power than the most sought after men in the world. It's just not the same.

Bad Idea Bear wrote: There's no getting around approaching women (this includes talking to girls online) if you want to have a top tier sex life, unless your goal is to literally become a celebrity.

And even being a celebrity won't make up for lack of sexual attractiveness. If you're unattractive and famous, like Aziz Anzari, you'll just be very publicly accused of sexual assault. So, even if that works, you still have to put lots of work into maxing out your looks.

But take a step back and think about what you're asking. You don't want to spend a lot of time chasing women (i.e. working hard to get women), so you want to make money? You think making money is easy!? You'll spend all your time chasing money, and if you're doing that as a means to get women, you're really still chasing women (you're spending all your time working toward the goal of getting women). In fact, you'll invest a lot more time, and probably have a lot less to show for it.

If you were gonna go that route, you would probably want to just hire hookers. If you're rich, I'm sure you could hire a 9.5/10 hooker as often as you want. If you say, "no I don't want hooker, I want women who are into me", well, if these women chase you only when you're rich, isn't it just roundabout prostitution? Might as well just be explicit about it. If you're looking for the thrill of a jointly desired sexual encounter, stop thinking about money.

Maybe you should self-reflect some. Assuming you're not delusional about what it takes to get rich (80+ hours per week of work), you're thinking about investing tons of time and effort to get laid, as long as that effort isn't what you call "chasing women". Is it the hard work of chasing women you're trying to avoid, or some kind of emotional toll? Does all that chasing, and all the rejection that comes along with it, get to you? Does spending 80+ hours/week working on a business sound better than half that time (if even) chasing women because it doesn't mess with your self-esteem? Would you be proud to tell people you work hard on your business, but ashamed to tell people you work hard on getting pussy (even though it would be inauthentic if you're really working on the business as a way to get pussy). I don't know, I'm just asking, on your behalf. If I were you this is the question I would be asking myself. In short, why are you trying to avoid pursuing women, if you're obviously willing to dedicate massive effort toward the goal of getting women?

I agree with you 100% also if you let them know you have money you will be broke in no time.Then you will have no women or money

Why not both?

You've got 14-16 hours to do shit every day.

That's 9 hours to make money 3 hours to get fit and 2-4 hours to dick down some pussy g

Personally I feel you very quickly reach a point of diminishing returns in terms of being able to get girls vs how much it really adds to your life. For me I was satisfied when I improved my appearance (style, physique, etc) to being able to get a girl over once in a while from tinder, and having a few fuck buddies.

I'm not getting laid multiple times a week, so I can't say for sure what having a top tier sex life adds to your life, but I get far, far more gratification and satisfaction building my business, learning and becoming better every day, and reaching those type of goals than I do chasing chicks.

But everyone has different goals, and I dont think one is better than the other. It's up to you. It is nice not having to worry about money tho

There are also guys who underachieve and are with ugly girls....

Approaching should be fun. The feeling that "what if i went up to talk to her" "what if she let me hit" after you DON'T SAY SHIT is the worst feeling. Just go for it and talk to girls and make it fun. If you get rejected you 99.99999% of the time will never see this girl again and if you do, "she's just missing out" should be your mindstate

Thinking that money is going to buy gold diggers is more of a "chasing" mentality then just getting your shit together and enjoying talking to new women. Talking to girls isn't a chore like work where you have to "clock in" just do it whenever a girl looks fuckable