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Oh boy, it's starting freezing out there like an icebox and I have more than 2.5 weeks to come......
Went out today, first girl I saw was wearing wetlook tights (sth that drives me crazy), was walking on the pavement ahead me , thought for a minute to make a "heroic" approach.....stopped thinking about it immediately (I have time for these "postgraduate"......things later), went to my normal spot again, stopped 5 girls (hottest was an HB5,5). One of the girls I stopped, gave me an expression like she was wondering:
"what the fuck is he doing?" (AKA "Oh, my God !! A masculine man asks me for my phone in order to have a meet-up with me! IT CAN'T BE CREEPIER !!!" ).
I insta "Ok, have a good day" her (AKA "Good riddance, you devout asexual!").....
After a couple of days on crappy mood, today I was quite relaxed, although I'm starting to get massively bored going day after day to the same spot and sitting there like a stool in the middle of cold weather. Tried to make the approaches in the shortest period of time possible. First girl was quite cute slim brunette, she responded to my line with a bit irrelevant answer "I'm in a hurry".....
This week I try to avoid the "Excuse me", cause it makes me feel like I beg the girl to talk to me. I'm still a bit away from being as natural as I want to be during my interactions. Talked to 4 more girls after that, not bitchy responses, but, also, still not something worthy of mention after 10 days of being out there.
What makes me keep my hope, is that for third consecutive day, i managed to accomplish my daily target.
It's becoming tougher and tougher day to day this challenge. I demonstrated a bit thirsty behaviour today, although I managed to accomplish my daily goal again.
I'm getting bored standing in a corner waiting for chicks to walk by, so I decided to put myself there for the less period of time possible, to approach 2-3 girls, and then make a walk to the city centre trying to find 1-2 girls more. Talked to 3 girls I saw them getting out of the grocery store, one of them was at her early 30's/late 20's I believe. Not bitchy responses, but they said No and left.
Made a walk to the city centre, saw a nerdy HB5 girl at a bus station, throw my line, the girl gave me a smile but said she doesn't have her phone with her.....
5th girl HB4 chubby was walking towards me on the pavement, trying to stop her I touched her lightly (I don't want to do it ), throw my line, girl said "No".
Tried to finish the today's drill as fast as possible, not in my best day.
I don't have success still, but I take enormous pride I'm able at least to put my face in front of some girls. My challenge is tough, I don't know how I will fix the things in order to go till the end.
Neutral day today, not so cold out there, still wanted to finish the drills as fast as possible.
Walked 3 blocks around my home, found a HB5,5 brunette girl at a bus station, another girl standing at the pavement texting at her phone (I found myself saying the "Excuse me" again for this girl). During my way back home I stopped a slightly below average girl exactly the moment she was getting out of a bookshop. Three polite negative responses. I'm sure that some of the girls I've talked all these days are high school students below 18 years old, and I don't know if i'm risking anything not good. I don't want to have any further trouble.
Walked back at home without finishing the daily goal for the first time this week. It is painfully tough to go out each and every day, trying to find and talk to 5 girls in a 150k population city. I need to be honest.
I was thinking to post photo of my style when i go out, I will probably do this at the end of this week.
Today I had to complete an extremely hard task of approaching 10 chicks (and there are the minus 2 girls from yesterday). It was almost impossible to do what I didn't accomplish yesterday.
Fortunately the weather was quite mild again, I decided to go to my spot around midday and wait for a couple of girls coming out of the local grocery store. Managed to stop three girls, a HB4, an HB5,5 and an HB5 quite shy girl, perhaps below 18y.o. On the last girl I decided to throw a more aggressive line "Hey, can I have your number?", girls makes a smile, I said "to go for a drink tonight".....in a nice-guy and a bit goofy way...lol....Took 3 "No's". I didn't care for the last girl, probably she was non-adult.
Made a walk to the city centre after that, found a girl with her friend sitting in a bench in the plaza, threw my line, took a polite negative response. Got bored and my mood started showing signs of crappiness. During my way back home, I decided to find a girl and make a mechanic approach just to complete a set of five approaches for today. Found a slim taller than me girl at a bus station (pretty cute), a couple of people around there, I made my approach in a bit meek way just like the crappy disgusting approaches of the previous week......
I decided to stop there. Approached five girls today. Again, I' m minus 7 approaches for the second week. I haven't taken a single phone number yet.
I'm afraid I don't run this challenge with my shit fixed. I will write my thoughts for these two weeks tomorrow. I will definitely post a photo of my looks while out in public approaching chicks. I want criticism as honest as possible and on a HB scale.
You might wanna acknowledge something about the situation before you ask for the number.
Chris’ line of “hey I know this is random but I noticed you and thought you were cute” isn’t some “beta” pussy shit, it’s showing you’re socially calibrated and aware that this is a little out of the ordinary.
Lessens the “weird” factor a bit on the girls end.
The first two weeks of my challenge have gone. It's tough and the emotional variance is brutal. A few days I was in good state, but the majority of the time I found myself being a bit pessimistic and trying to do the drills just for the sake of it and not because I trully wanted it.
I've put my face in front of 56 girls, the majority average, slightly above/below average, a couple of cute girls and 3-4 real rags......using a strict brief line "Hey, Can I have your number?".
ENERGY IS EVERYTHING ! Feeling cool, you do the drills and don't realize when time passes. Feeling crappy, you got out and time seems to be a century......
I haven't taken a single number so far. I don't know if I need to continue the challenge with the way I'm running it, or if I don't fill the fundamentals in terms of looks+style and need to go back to the basics. I posted photos of the way I look when I was out doing the drills, in the members forum.
2nd week's results: 28/35 approaches First Two Weeks' Results: 56/70 approaches - No number
-Went out and bought a cool scarf. It's pretty good.
-Ordered an affordable plain white v-neck t-shirt. The order will be in my home over the next 3-4 days.
-Today the barber shops are closed, so tomorrow I will go for a haircut. I will try a military style.
With all those, I will have spent about 45€. Ι don't have more money available.
I want a winter jacket and a pair of cool sneakers. I will make a long search for the jacket, but as I see I will have some money for this towards the Christmas.
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