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I'm not afraid of rejection I'm afraid of people watching me get rejected.
Because if I try again I get stuck inside my head thinking, I'm being watched. With those other women or groups of people especially if it's my gym or restaurants or stores I go to. The bars and clubs as well but when I'm on Molly MDMA, IDAGF. I can literally feel my state change, something about being in the moment.
Any tips on how to combat this irrational fear just afraid these people if I ever see them again it later that night will call me out on it and not sure how to handle it.
I still feel like this sometimes but the only way to get past it is by doing it. The more you approach in front of people, the less you will care. When I was out last night, some guy saw me approach and started talking to me about it lol People don't care and if they do, they won't say shit.
Even if the same group of people see you immediately try to talk to another girl or group of girls, I feel like if the bar is fairly small or club as well, you have to be tactful. Otherwise you run the risk, in my mind anyway of running around like a chicken with it's head cut off.
But the smoking tip is gold those girls whether they realize it or not just made it a lot easier and more comfortable environment as soon as they step outside for approaching.
The only thing I can add to this topic is that confidence in approaching can be strengthened by practicing don't-give-a-fuck-ness in all walks of daily life, other than meeting women. People are right when they said that this isn't technique, but mindset/experience.
Do what you want, just as long as you don't hurt anyone or yourself. I can get carried away sometimes, and I don't advice it. But when I lose my temper and tell certain people to go fuck themselves, approaching (even in front of a lot of people) is as simple as if it were no thing.
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