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Good Looking Idiot 31 Mar 2015 16:08 #197251

Anger. Confusion. Frustration. Depression. Pain. Regret. Doubt.

These are all of the things I am feeling today. Why? Because today was supposed to be the day. The day that I started cold/lukewarm approaches. I knew what I wanted to say. I had the perfect opportunity to do what I so strongly wanted to do. I made sure I looked exceptionally good today. I studied the nervous guy game like my life depended on it. She was right there, a beautiful girl from my class that I have a crush on, walking alone no more than five paces ahead of me.

But instead, I said nothing and let her go. I didn't speak. I just walked past her like the fucking idiot I am. I didn't even feel any approach anxiety, thanks to the AA program.. So why did I not act? Why did I choose to do absolutely nothing instead of talking to a girl who's already shown at least a little interest?

Because I'm a dumbass, that's why. I'm ashamed of myself. I had all the tools I needed to succeed, and I didn't even use them. In fact, I might as well have thrown them all down the toilet. I couldn't have asked for a more perfect scenario. She was ALONE. I hate myself for my inaction. I didn't even try. I had been hyping myself up to do it since even last Thursday, and once the time came around for me to make my move, I flaked for no fucking reason. The AA program has helped me tremendously, yet I still acted like a little bitch.

I'm disgusted with myself. I had to let all of this out.
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Good Looking Idiot 31 Mar 2015 17:40 #197273

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Don't beat yourself up over not approaching a girl it's not a big deal.

Don't even think of going up to a girl and talking to her as "approaching her", just think of it as harmless conversation. Something small and relevant to the situation.

"Hey, do you happen to know when our next test is in class?"
"Do you think you're going to do well?"
"How did you do on the last one?"
etc. etc.

Obviously not "smooth" or even "flirty" but if you're not ready to be aggressive then that's a good first step. At least you're having a conversation with a girl you're attracted to. Don't think of it as an approach, she's not going to walk away from a conversation like that and say "What the fuck was that creep trying to flirt with me for" unless she's a cunt, or you have major social interaction deficiencies. If at any time you feel nervous or overwhelmed, just thank her and be on your way.

If you can't do it with a girl you're attracted to, start with someone else. Start with a fucking dude if you have to.
Don't even think of it as AA or an approach, you're just talking to another human being in a non-threatening way.

Worry about more aggressive stuff later.
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Good Looking Idiot 31 Mar 2015 17:46 #197274

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Another angle is sometimes a guy has to just tell himself "now." Right fucking now, do it now, there will never be a perfect time, just act, do it, right now, etc. Just override the circuitry looking for reasons not to and just do it, force it if you have to. After you do, no matter what happens, the high likelihood is you'll admire that you took action.
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Good Looking Idiot 31 Mar 2015 18:36 #197289

Thank you Honore and Tyson Wolf. I was just really mad at myself because my whole life I've been choosing not to act and I really want to change that quality about me because it's led to SO MANY missed opportunities.

But again, thanks to you guys for the kind words. I'll definitely be getting in there next time.
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Good Looking Idiot 31 Mar 2015 19:35 #197302

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idauqsknab2 wrote: Thank you Honore and Tyson Wolf. I was just really mad at myself because my whole life I've been choosing not to act and I really want to change that quality about me because it's led to SO MANY missed opportunities.

But again, thanks to you guys for the kind words. I'll definitely be getting in there next time.


dude u have no idea how many times i did nothing and regretted it.

thats why i did the aa program so that i would never have that feeling again. i def recommend u do it too. getting rid of anxiety is a life changer
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Good Looking Idiot 31 Mar 2015 20:00 #197306

@bendenherover I actually am currently doing the program which is why I'm so disappointed in myself. I'm on Week 4 day 23
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Good Looking Idiot 31 Mar 2015 20:18 #197310

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No reason to be disappointed at all bro. At day 23 you're not expected to even approach yet, though of course you can on the side. I wouldn't expect anything until you get to Week 6 where you can do what you want in the drills. Anything you get now is bonus.
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Good Looking Idiot 01 Apr 2015 02:15 #197390

Thanks to all for the support I'm in a much better mood now. I'll keep pushing this shit isn't over!
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Good Looking Idiot 22 May 2016 16:36 #250687

Hey man, don't lose your head over it.

As Chris says it's a number's game so you will definitely don't have to be discouraged from this little thing. Not to mention you got like zero bridges burned! You can always talk to her, right? Ain't that great?
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