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I am feeling defeated 29 Mar 2015 00:41 #196582

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I work with so many hot girls for the past 6 months or so and they all love me too. I been kinda nervous to ask any out but this past week I said fuck it and went for it. I texted one girl and she didn't text me back. another one said she was going to be out of town this weekend. then this another girl i REALLY REALLY wanted who i been flirting with recently I asked her if she was free to go out sometime and she told me she had a boyfriend. It seems like all the girls I really like have boyfriends and the girls that are ok are the ones that would jump at the chance to go out with me. i hate that. This other hot girl at work who really likes me told me the other day "if i wasn't taken i would totally claim you!!" lol god its so frustrating. its making me depressed. i need to start going out and doing cold approaches but i know it will be challenging because I never really done that stuff before. I just need to vent my frustration thats why I posted this.
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I am feeling defeated 29 Mar 2015 00:55 #196588

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Hey, how about doing the AA program?

I'm on day 24 and I've already talked to 700+ girls, in a way constructed by GLL to give a guy positive reinforcement.

And the concept of sexual availability, you need to internalize that. This society, Hollywood, etc., brainwashes us into thinking we have to have that one girl. But actually all the hot girls you see, the majority of them at any given time are sexually unavailable. So what? Approach 20 or 25 then, find the few girls that are sexually available. Then it comes down to your looks, style.

What if these girls at work really aren't sexually available. It comes down to getting your numbers up to find the ones that are.
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I am feeling defeated 29 Mar 2015 08:53 #196632

Unless you start making approaches a part of your routine you'll be living inside a bubble of seeing hot girls and thinking that they might be available (because you didn't approach them). I've been there, too. The truth is that most hot girls that you see are taken and that reality is pretty underwhelming. I think 95% of this community would not be here if reality was like we all wish it was. Approaching means doing some work, but it is work that will pay off in the long run.
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