TOPIC: Having An Edge / Pussy / Pickup Lingo

I've been having a few things floating around in my head so I thought I would lump them all into one post.  The first thing I want to talk about is something I called "passive screening".  Warning: I will be using pickup jargon in this post.  I am not an advocate of the seduction community in any sense, but sometimes, as much as I hate to admit it, using pickup jargon helps communicate my point better.  Anyway, I would like to explain what I mean by "passive screening".  I am a full time college student at the local college.  I take three classes.  As you can imagine, I am around lots of women during the day Monday through Friday.  Of all these women I am around every day, I would say there are about three HB9s, several HB7s and 8s, and countless girls who I am not interested in at all.  As far as the HB9s, there are a couple that I feel I have a 20/80 shot with if I came at them with really tight game.  But something hit me yesterday.  There are two HB7s that have been throwing pussy at me all semester but I have been kind of aloof with them because I've been fixated on the HB9s.  Why not just fuck the HB7s?  I already set up a lunch date with one HB7 with no resistance at all.  Zero.  Of course I plan on physicallty escalating on the date.    I'm pretty confident I could set something up with another HB7 as well.  Are the HB9s worth all the fucking trouble?  Why not just pick the low hanging fruit and not waste my time with them?  The HB9s this semster have been really hot and cold.  One HB9 will send me huge IOIs one week, and act like I don't exist the next week.  Chris, would love to hear your take on this.  About myself, I could probably pull HB9s easily if I lost about 20 pounds, but the extra weight has caused me to adjust my standards a little.  So anyway, just by saying nothing and observing, I have been effectively been able to screen these HB7s without even having to approach them in the traditional sense.  Has anyone  else tried this?  Next topic...

Being "edgy".  I totally get Chris' reasoning for dressing edgy.  Here's the thing though.  It just isn't me!  I don't feel comfortable in "edgy" clothing; I feel more confortable in expensive/stylish clothing.  This shirt is an example of my style:

http://pinterest.com/pin/381398662162473946/

Is not being edgy costing me pussy?  Should I work on embracing edgy clothing?  This is something I've had a lot of internal dialogue about and would appreciate some feedback. 

im assuming this question is open to everyone?

t bone, the short answer is yes, always improve (the development) your style. if its a little overwhelming start slow and build your closet up until you only wear basic shit at home or when youre going to sleep...

theres actually nothing wrong with what you wear now, but assuming another guy with about the same looks as who whom dresses edgier than you might get the girl over you!(obviously not though cause youre a gll)  you can try adding accessories?

hope i helped man, im glad with the way i dress and i like giving fashion related advice.. any other questions just ask

Brandon, thanks for the reply.  Its funny you mentioned accessories.  I have been thinking about jazzing up the shoes a little and keeping the clothes the same (For now). 

oh and another thing, i am guilty of this a lot. i sometimes feel like a girl isnt "hot" enough and i end up not trying too much to set something up which usually leads nowhere. please dont let you ego get ahead of you, i learned that smashing pussy is experience. youre kinda building up your pussy resume haha

^Bump^

That shirt looks pretty average. Ur not gonna stand out very much wearing something like that. I'd say the reason you feel more comfortable wearing something like that is because everyone wears that shit so you feel like its ok.

You're the only one who can give urself permission to dress edgy and make a statement.
Look at it like this:

"for every guy who looks at your style and thinks you're a douche-bag, there is a chick thinking that you are sexy"

"for every guy who looks at your style and thinks you're a douche-bag, there is a chick thinking that you are sexy" = amen

"retention is fucking impossible" = tell me about it, as soon as they realize they cant make you fall in love its donee. but ya 8+.... id be able to handle that if i had my own mansion haha

crap i read that wrong i thought it said 8plus fuckbuddies not a 8+ female haha, i suck at rating chicks, one day someone needs to put up a wall of 10 girls labeling them as a 1 thru dime piece

"for every guy who looks at your style and thinks you're a douche-bag, there is a chick thinking that you are sexy"

nice one!

Just yesterday a friend of mine wondered about the way I was dressed...."what are you wearing??" Said it very randomly and we changed subject immediately but this quesition says a lot about the above quote. By the way, he´s pretty much the nicest nice guy on the planet. And I mean that!

Now I have to smile about this cause I know I´m progressing in my way of dressing edgy.

"for every guy who looks at your style and thinks you're a douche-bag, there is a chick thinking that you are sexy"

100% agree. I wear shit similar to this: http://img33.imageshack.us/img33/134/photo30vl.jpg   while I'm working out. (205 lbs 8-9% BF with great 6 pack) And I get approached a ton, lots of stares and drooling which I act on or I workout and look at myself in the mirrors. Ya I like looking at my body don't pretend like you don't.

Anyway the same applies to my wardrobe. I wear shit out of the ordinary for my town. I usually shop out of town/state or online. I don't have tattoos so that's hugely ATTRACTIVE in my town, probably 1% of guys don't. Also I spray a shit ton of cologne on my body before I leave. I get repeat customers just because they recognize my 'scent'. I get the best reactions from these:  http://castlefragrances.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Nautica-Voyage-3.4-EDT-M.jpg

and: http://fimgs.net/images/perfume/nd.410.jpg

I go to a bar or club and there are no dudes with hats on, I'll grab my retro colored DBACKS hat: http://www.fittedid.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/Arizona-Diamondback-New-Era-Fitted-Hat-2001-World-Series-Side-Patch-gray-under-brim-500x379.jpg

That hat is fuckin money. Talked with a girl for 20 minutes about my hat. I enjoyed talking about it.

Bottom line: Advertise yourself! Wear or do some shit that makes you stand out, at least make yourself appear interesting even if you're the most boring douche bag ever(cause that shirt sucks dude).

Also, unless you have an amazing body, girls dont care if you're skinny or fat. The upside to having a great body is being approached more often and also getting more attention which I use for jealousy, it's also kind of like a ice breaker because the girl usually looks at it and that's a wide opening for you to make a move. Other than that fuck it. (my experience anyway)

lose the 20 pounds, fuck all of them.

yo bub! welcome bro u post some good shit and u only got 3posts lol. later

Here's the thing though.  It just isn't me!

T-Bone, I'm not directing this at you, I'm directing this at anyone and everyone who says/think "It Just Isn't Me," as it applies it anything and everything.

NOTHING about dressing edgy, fucking women, slamming your dick deep into their cervix, going on dates, hitting on women, grabbing their hand in the first 10 seconds is going to feel like it "YOU" if they haven't been doing it

It wasn't for me, sitting in my room playing xbox and leaving the house only to go to the gym was all that was me.

that's the entire point. people have GOT TO TRY NEW THINGS. (im not referring to the clothing issue or to you personally)

Walking up to a random girl and trying to stuff her in my car in 10 minutes wasn't me. Wearing ripped jeans wasn't me. Scotty wasn't born with 10000 tattoos.

With that said, a better reason, in my opinion, to not do something is that you find the alternative equally as good or better, rather than not doing something because it feels temporarily uncomfortable.

We were joking about it the other day. I did a lot of stuff that I don't really mention along the way to get to where I've gotten now and realized what worked best for me. I wore eyeliner during the day (in Florida) and it would literally be running down my face. I put red streaks in my hair. I tried just about every style of "game". I carried toys and props in-field.. literally, I have done so much shit that at the time-- WASN'T ME and I benefited because of it in the long run.

On the issue of dressing edgy- it never is ANYONE to begin with.

We grow up while being dressed by our parents, everyone wearing the same conservative "One day I will have a job" look. Some people break out of that and some don't. A lot guys get super uptight about putting a necklace or ring on their finger so, unless they are good looking and tall, they project the same boring average guy character to the entire world.

The last issue is the guys that refuse to dress sexy/cool because they "want girls to like them for WHO THEY ARE"
For some reason they think they are totally awesome, super cool, non-generic people that hot girls should crawl to.
Usually these guys have no idea WHO THEY ARE, usually they are totally boring guys that are too pussy to try new things, and accordingly --- they are reflecting that exact character, whether they know it or not.

again - this isnt directed at you