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I feel your pain. There's a lot of shit you can't do when you're still in high school and living with your parents. I remember it like it was yesterday.
I know you want to get laid right now, and I know it sucks to go through dry spells. But, in your town of 30K you will continue to run into a lot of issues. That's not to say you should stop trying, keep going with the online dating. BUT, you need to find other focuses while you wait to graduate.
1: This is super important: start making plans to move to a big city. Do whatever it takes, but get the fuck outta your town. This is the ONLY first step to having a great sex life. Even if it's a job you don't want, just get yourself out immediately. Fun fact, did you know you can be a barback/bartender at 18? Just sayin'.
2. Get your diet sorted out. My biggest regret in highschool is not taking bodybuilding seriously. I could have had a great body right now, but I was too busy with other shit and letting women get in the way of the gym. I don't care if your mom makes your food. You're 18, not a helpless 4 year old. TALK TO HER. And all you fuckin need is to get some chicken, eggs, cheese, rice, canned tuna. Shit like that. You can do it. Learning how to eat will pay mad dividends down the road.
Lay Count: 99 (30 from cold approach since finding GLL)
1. Pay myself $5000/month from my business
2. Quit kratom completely (DONE)
"Gll style guide says that jeans and fitting tshirt+accessories is enough, but i feel like i look an averege dude."
But look at Chris's body. Look at dc's body. See the difference?
"I always think that i'm too short, too ugly, shityy style, shitty logistics etc"
-insoles + elevator shoes
-if you're ugly fix this but I don't know your flaws so I won't help. You have to identify and elminate them
So guys i went out last night with my bros and 2 girls. It's rare that i have girls in my social circle so i fucked up showing who i am. I was too silent all the fucking times, i was analyzing everything that was happening. I was thinking about stupid shit(i think that my bro's gf is cheating, she is constantly on her phone, they havent had sex few weeks, girl is playing hard to get way too much, she doesnt like when he touches her etc.), i was just silent and absorving everything, staring others etc. Okay we smoked pot but i was already silent most of the times, before smoking.
I think it's because of the GLL, i think i spend too much time here and can't seem to stop it. It's like a drug to me. Place where everything is awesome, fairytale world ormsth. I just thought yesterday that i needed tactics, right words to say, right physical connection etc. I was so fucking boring, that i creeped my friends gf out multiple times.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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