If you're trying to meet girls and get laid - I have a mantra that I suggest that you follow, "Get Laid or Get Lost."
"Get Laid or Get Lost" means that every girl that you approach - you take the mentality that you are either going to Get Laid or the girl can Get Lost [and not waste your time].
There's only a handful of guys that I know that sleep with hot girls consistently and they all have this mentality.
This is the aggressive approach that legit players have each time they speak to a girl that they want to bang.
With this mentality, you'll never put yourself in the "friend zone" or waste your time in a pointless interaction with some nonsexual or boring girl.