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Just finished Podcast #2 with Scotty.
He tackled all the questions you guys asked in this forum thread.
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Table of Contents
0:00 The guy(s) Scotty is training. Here is Scotty's training page - you hit him up with questions.
How Scotty Learned the "Bathroom Pull" Stuff, Scotty's Beginning
5:55 Scotty and the "Pheromone Kidd" (Pulling girls into bathrooms mentor)
Scotty's 'Decision' to Get Past Approach Anxiety in 3 Weeks
(Going Out 6 Days a Week for 4-8 Hours)
13:30 q: Could Scotty talk about the 3 weeks where he basically beat AA: How he felt during the first few and the last few approaches during that time, how many hours per day did he put into approaching, how many women did he approximately approach per day, after how many approaches did it feel significantly easier (social freedom), did he also use the baby steps model etc. Basically a rough outline of how this phase was. (GLL Remedy)
Beating "Oneitis" (sweating one girl too much) and Over-Analyzing
25:15 q: Did you ever have oneitis/compulsively over-think anything about girls? What changed it for you so that you started to go out there and just do it?
(and by "just do it" I mean just hitting on girls/talking to them/not caring about any specific girl anymore) (GLL Situation 86)
First Girl Scotty Tags from "Cold Approach"
29:10 q: Tell us about your first lay from cold approach Scotty De Flamingo. (GLL McSolar)
Screening, Aggressiveness and Environment/Culture
33:50 q: More specifics on how to fit the GLL principles so that it is more congruent with you and your environment. For example, I see a lot of guys who don't get results by screening as aggressively as Scotty and Chris and need to screen less hard to get results. People who don't live in metropolitan areas are not able to put in as much volume, is there any way around that? Etc. (GLL Repsej)
What the WORST Thing that Happened to Scotty?
40:15 q: What's the "worst" thing that happened to Scotty, approach-related (due to being aggressive) that he wants to confess? (e.g. trouble with police, security guard etc) (GLL SSKO8)
What's the #1 Reason that Guys Fail?
What's the #1 Reason that Guys Succeed?
42:00 q: He has coached ALOT of guys ---- why do many guys fail? and why do some guys succeed at a high-level after his observation? (GLL SAM)
Physical 'Fight or Flight' Reactions to Approach Anxiety
56:00 q: Does Scotty maintain any kind of specific feeling in his body when he goes? Like, for instance for me when I kinda feel and go from my *gut* its way different than any other time. (GLL WET)
What Was the Most Brutal Rejection?
58:55 q: What has his most brutal rejection been and what was his quickest lay. (GLL KingKong)
How Important is Race? (for those that want girls of a different race)
1:09:42 q: Since you bang a lot of black chicks, how important do you think race/ethnicity is when cold approaching?? Like going after chix out of your race type thing. (Sorry - Audio fades a bit) (GLL Cesar)
Scotty's Face Tattoo
Verbal vs. Physical Dialogue?
1:13:10 q: Thought I heard a comment about how you "used to" have a face tattoo....did you get it removed? Do you think the ink helps you out there or freaks a lot of broads out? I've seen Chris' vids and I know he's a smart guy but I feel he kind of dumbs himself down to the level of the young girl to relate better to them..... I know looks and style are more important but dialogue has to matter a certain degree..........are you pretty sexual in dialogue or you let your hands do the talking? (GLL Scifen) *GREAT QUESTION BTW*
How Long Until Approaching Becomes Normal?
(& Good Looking Loser's Guarantee)
1:25:45 (sound slips but then gets better) q: Let's say you were to approach 10 girls per day. How long do you think it should take for most people to develop the habit so that when they see a girl they find attractive, they automatically go and talk to her (in a second or less), as opposed to staring from afar and having to force yourself to make the approach? (GLL - Balaclava Blogger)
He is one of the most thoughtful guys I know. (that's not a joke)
Efficiency: Where is the Best/Most Efficient Place to Pickup Girls?
1:32:15 q: How do you and Scotty maximize your efficiency? IE: most lays per minute of time invested. I'm thinking about comparing things like online dating, vs. in person cold approach and where is the best place to get the most lays per time invested. (GLL FS-Ronin)
What Should "Average" Beginners Do?
1:40:15 q: I know that Scotty probably co-signs everything on the GLL website, but if he had to "coach" or advise a guy that was a complete blank slate. Like a dude in his early twenties for instance, completely average at everything...
I'm curious what he would advise the guy to work on first? Like in what order should a "beginner" focus on, providing he is the average joe at everything when he starts and he wants to achieve the most success with the hottest possible girls in the shortest amount of time?
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Just so you know Chris, this podcast isn't currently downloadable off of Soundcloud. There would an icon that would suggest it can be downloaded otherwise. Thanks!
Yo Chris and Scotty,
Really appreciate the time and effort you put into really listening to the questions on the forums and answering them. Tons of value about AA, I'm generally not a big fan of podcasts but these are really really helpful....
Yo Chris and Scotty,
Really appreciate the time and effort you put into really listening to the questions on the forums and answering them. Tons of value about AA, I'm generally not a big fan of podcasts but these are really really helpful. Especially the part about AA being a universal thing and basically everyone suffering from it puts things into perspective. Very motivating stuff!
GLL! Here's something I'd like answered in depth in a video:
I'm what you might call a smart cookie. Computer programmer, run my own company, read a lot, spend a lot of time reflecting and writing down my thoughts, speak three languages, used to...
GLL! Here's something I'd like answered in depth in a video:
I'm what you might call a smart cookie. Computer programmer, run my own company, read a lot, spend a lot of time reflecting and writing down my thoughts, speak three languages, used to win spelling bees at my high school, etc.
Anyway, a sticking point that I have is that I find myself very stifled with... ahem... less intelligent women. Which category, alas, often overlaps with the most fuckable one.
It's not that I'm an aspie nerd or something: I can be very charming and outgoing with women if I feel they are somewhat on my level and I can express myself freely. But this is of course a small subset of all available women.
So, any ideas on how to conquer this limiting belief/pattern/whatchamacallit?
I'm Swedish, for the record. But I think this is a universal problem
Man use the SoundCloud downloader in the meantime.
Thanks for answering my question guys! Good noting that anxiety is a gradual thing, and not an instant spike.
By the way Chris, a balaclava is the ski mask that terrorists wear (check my site to see what I mean). Baklava is the Greek food you...
Thanks for answering my question guys! Good noting that anxiety is a gradual thing, and not an instant spike.
By the way Chris, a balaclava is the ski mask that terrorists wear (check my site to see what I mean). Baklava is the Greek food you were talking about.
Lately, i delved into the myers-briggs personality test and after listening to this podcast, i couldn't help but make assumptions about Chris and Scotty's personality.
Now I know why Scotty is such a thoughtful/deep human being, because he is...
Lately, i delved into the myers-briggs personality test and after listening to this podcast, i couldn't help but make assumptions about Chris and Scotty's personality.
Now I know why Scotty is such a thoughtful/deep human being, because he is an INFJ like me. Means, an Introvert with a strong intuition and deepness. His intuition is his strongest gift. According to Myers-Briggs there are 16 personality types split into 4 groups (Dreamers, Creators, Intellects, Overseers) and the INFJ type is part of the Dreamers group and it is the rarest type of all types. Only 1% of americas population are INFJ. Carl G. Jung once said that the xNFx Types are the most interesting and complex types, they are the ones who leave an impact on this world. Scotty is literally one of a kind, and now everything kind of make sense to me. I mean, if he would be a typical extrovert with a weak intuition, he probably wouldn't make it so far and gain all those insights so quickly (screening, validation, non-verbal (words are irrelevant), focus on her actions not on her words, ...), without his insights, Goodlookingloser probably wouldn't exist. Even a former student of him mentioned... that Scotty once approached a girl and the interaction went quite well (hand holding...), but Scotty snapped out of the interaction with the argumentation that she would be trouble or something like that. I mean he can read people right away, that clarifies anything. Chris on the other hand, seems to be an ENFP (Dreamer as well), a visionary with strong ideals and a strong intuition who wants to leave an impact on this world and make the world a better place...i guess you on the right path bro.
Thanks for the podcast Chris. I always appreciate your & Scotty's views on things, no matter what. You both are a gift from a heaven. Here are some brilliant sayings...not exactly how they said it but anyway.
-Approach anxiety is universal, it's normal, it's not a disease...so don't think too much about it. Just focus on your goal (Getting Laid).
-You will always face challenges, that's the beauty of this whole thing. Don't shy away from them, embrace them. They make a big part of the journey.
-You will not regret failing, but you will regret not trying.
-Sometimes it's better not to say anything, because it can screw things up.
http://personalitycafe.com/infj-articles/19817-many-faces-infj.html
This is what i mean. Scotty pretty much fits into the guru/revolutionary category.
at 1:38 when scotty says he's super honest with the girls (ones driving home from mall with him) does he verbally say stuff like "come back to my house to fuck" or does he say stuff like "come back and hang out at my house" but with the...
at 1:38 when scotty says he's super honest with the girls (ones driving home from mall with him) does he verbally say stuff like "come back to my house to fuck" or does he say stuff like "come back and hang out at my house" but with the non-verbals and the rest of the interaction she knows whats up?
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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