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Thank You!
I'll have a post (rather, series) coming out pretty soon -
How to Lose Your Virginity
It's an important one so I want to take my time on it.
It will be the MOST IMPORTANT one to a lot of guys and I don't want to let you down.
To be honest, I've kind of struggled with it and that is rare since most of these blog posts basically write themselves because I just have to think back to the stuff I've done.
(unfortunately, the blog posts don't usually write themselves with the correct grammar)
Despite how well a lot of our members do (it seems like more guys are posting pictures of naked girls on their bed in the private forum every day), ~1 in 3 guys that reads GoodLookingLoser.com still needs to lose their V-Card and that is presumably why they are here.
I will take care of you guys.
I promise you.
You just need to do what I say.
I'll have a 'low-risk' way to lose your virginity and a recommendation if you need a structured program for it.
The second thing I want to say is - THANK YOU.
I am beyond grateful that you guys feel that our community is worthwhile and have trusted me (on whatever issues you are looking for advice on).
When I started Good Looking Loser back in December of 2011 (although early 2012 is really when I started developing it), it was never supposed to be an entire community or something that I planned to dedicate more than a couple months to.
I wanted to tell my story (= the stuff I learned from PUA was okay but a more aggressive approach was a lot better) and be D.O.N.E. with it.
In fact, if not for Brian (aka Scotty) - I probably wouldn't have started building it.
I really didn't like the idea because -
When I started chasing down pussy full-time in Los Angeles (2008), I wasn't anywhere near an Internet forum or any websites.
I found that the Internet is absolutely no place to learn about how to meet women.
Since 2008, however, there's been some advances in technology (blog-based websites, pick up videos, for example), that are pretty worthwhile if you actually go out and apply what you learned.
It still has it's limitations however.
I try my best.
Still, it is because of YOU GUYS that I will dedicate the rest of my life to improving yours.
I know a lot of people want to hear about how to make money online - we will get there in due time.
I will make a lot of you guys wealthy.
I'm not able to smash out quality content on a 24 hour basis though.
I really do believe though - if you stick around here during your 20's, a lot of you will have been with more girls and have more money than I do by the time you turn 32.
A special thanks goes out to Mike at Danger & Play and Victor at Bold & Determined.
The content on Good Looking Loser isn't without controversy or universally appealing - so your support means that much more. I'm forever appreciative for your support and hope to repay you for a lifetime.
If there hasn't looked like there's been a post on GoodLookingLoser.com in a few weeks, it because we been working on these guides over a 'Lifestyle' by Good Looking Loser -
If you want to drop me a note about how this community has helped you or about what else you are interested in seeing here (I'll do it - so long as I have real-world experience with it), by all means, hit me up below -
I have a million and one ideas (literally written over 6 dry erase boards) but I still want to hear what you are looking for.
Thank you again.
Chris
GLL has changed my life man
Every year, just after January 1st, I'd lie in bed hoping that this year would finally be the year. This would finally be the year when I'd walk up to a hot girl and get her in my bed, this would finally be the year...
GLL has changed my life man
Every year, just after January 1st, I'd lie in bed hoping that this year would finally be the year. This would finally be the year when I'd walk up to a hot girl and get her in my bed, this would finally be the year when I get a girlfriend (that didn't chase me). My 20s absolutely sucked for me in terms of women. I was lonely as fuck up until I found this site in 2012. My ex fucked me over and I didn't know how I'd ever get another girl.
Fast forward to now, and life is 100x better. I'm a much happier person (still not where I want to be tho). I have a steady girlfriend (I fucked a couple others before we got together), and I know that I can approach and pull girls now. It's not just about girls either. I look better because of how much I hit the gym, and I'm working hard to achieve my goals to make me a successful person.
By far though, the most important advice I've ever taken from your website though, is how to overcome negativity and be happy. The post you did on scheduling one fun thing every couple of weeks has literally changed my life. Instead of going to work, gym, then rinse and repeat, life has more variety and is more interesting now. Plus I've got so many more fun experiences to remember and share with other people.
Also, knowing that I wasn't alone in how I felt helped me alot. I literally typed in 'good looking loser' to google and your site came up. That phrase summed up my life perfectly. Thank you Chris, it's without exaggeration I say that you helped change my life (no homo).
Thanks a lot dude. You;ve been here from the start and have been a big help to our members.
We have certainly shared a lot of similar experiences in our 20's.
In terms of what I'd like to see here:-
Your philosophy on relationship management - not just for fuckbuddies, but for committed monogamous relationships
Yup - I definitely have to
I second this.
glad I was trolling those penis forums and trying to improve myself after getting over a break up in 2012 and somehow finding your well-known bathmate review. The rest is history. My only regret is not starting/finishing the approach anxiety...
glad I was trolling those penis forums and trying to improve myself after getting over a break up in 2012 and somehow finding your well-known bathmate review. The rest is history. My only regret is not starting/finishing the approach anxiety program. Everything else you've shared has been golden... and dammit I may need to look into your hair loss guide.
Chris,
I'm not an entirely active member but I've been following your stuff for around 2 years now after getting away from the PUA forums and can certainly say you've changed my perspective for the better. Your no bs approach to self improvement...
Chris,
I'm not an entirely active member but I've been following your stuff for around 2 years now after getting away from the PUA forums and can certainly say you've changed my perspective for the better. Your no bs approach to self improvement was the gateway for me into the "red pill" community or whatever you want to call it and I'm learning more and more about how to improve my life each day. Your content is what pointed me in this direction.
Originally you were the go-to guy for me when it came to picking up girls as your ideas absolutely worked for me in practice while everyone else was trying to over-analyse and overcomplicate things. They changed my views on relationships and sex to something healthier so I thank you for that.
I also used your weight loss diet last summer to lose nearly 10kg (dirty bulking ha) which was awesome.
One more thing, "Nothing in moderation" is a philosophy that has become a key part of my being.
Jack
Thankx very much for writing in Jack, I appreciate it mucho.
Chris, thanks for everything. Also, my questions are 1) Will the "Get Paid" section be getting updated soon and 2) I've started going to the gym and your Fat Loss Diet modified to no longer be fat and I'm wondering if you can give me a basic...
Chris, thanks for everything. Also, my questions are 1) Will the "Get Paid" section be getting updated soon and 2) I've started going to the gym and your Fat Loss Diet modified to no longer be fat and I'm wondering if you can give me a basic workout routine?
Hey ASH -
1) no, not soon
2) there's a lot of different workout routines... they all are fine because training isn't a huge deal (so long as you do it). dont train with heavy weights if you arent eating carbs. I'll have a workout routine to go...
Hey ASH -
1) no, not soon
2) there's a lot of different workout routines... they all are fine because training isn't a huge deal (so long as you do it). dont train with heavy weights if you arent eating carbs. I'll have a workout routine to go with the diet pretty soon
Hey Chris, thank you for the AA program.
I am in the last week, and it has so far completely changed my mind.
When I got into PUA stuff, I started with rehearsed lines and then hoped the girl would stick around to finally like me. But I never...
Hey Chris, thank you for the AA program.
I am in the last week, and it has so far completely changed my mind.
When I got into PUA stuff, I started with rehearsed lines and then hoped the girl would stick around to finally like me. But I never learned to own up to myself. It was always a bit of a play.
Then, at one point of the AA program, I learnt to adopt the mindset "what I say matters because I matter". Now it was the real me. No "make-pretend" anymore. The drills came from the program, but since they are never supposed to "make me" successful, just to help me screening girls, they merely allow myself to express what I really want.
I feel good doing what I want to do. That's real personal growth.
Oh, and from the GLL sites I have discovered B&D and then in extension also D&P. I can truly say discovering goodlookingloser.com in 2014 has made a huge impact on my life. More than the 5 past years combined.
Thanks again, Chris, and keep up the good work.
Do you guys ever plan a meet-up? I'd be curious in meeting more people from here in real life and make the community grow.
Plus the "Get Paid" section - I'd be interested in that as well.
Best of luck
Florian
We have a bit of a mini-meetup in Vegas next week. Sat Sept 20. at the Cosmopolitan. See Danger and Play for more info.
I appreciate your feedback very much.
This website was the catalyst that pushed me to quit smoking and drinking. I know that's not even what you do, but since I started reading GLL I busted out about half of the AA program (lol, a work in progress), and really got my life on track....
This website was the catalyst that pushed me to quit smoking and drinking. I know that's not even what you do, but since I started reading GLL I busted out about half of the AA program (lol, a work in progress), and really got my life on track. The confidence from completing half the AA program alone has made this year the most pussy-filled year of my life, and it's not even over yet. It's a long road ahead, and I read a lot of self improvement stuff in between the gym and the mall, but your site will ALWAYs be my home base.
I'm happy to hear that man. Stick with it and you'll get better and better.
This site is amazing and has improved my life in countless ways.
Kratom and Bathmate are the two things that come to mind that have been life altering in the truest sense of the words
The "Get Paid" section is what I'm most looking forward to...
This site is amazing and has improved my life in countless ways.
Kratom and Bathmate are the two things that come to mind that have been life altering in the truest sense of the words
The "Get Paid" section is what I'm most looking forward to in the future. Really excited about that because I know it will be top notch.
Thanks a lot dude. Yeah, the 'get paid' will be as good if not better.
I used to think that being an advanced PUA would get me laid. Now I read your website and I get Laid with women in their 20's and Im an 17 year old. PUA fucked me up butnit eventually brought me here. You have changed my life in so many ways. I...
I used to think that being an advanced PUA would get me laid. Now I read your website and I get Laid with women in their 20's and Im an 17 year old. PUA fucked me up butnit eventually brought me here. You have changed my life in so many ways. I look up to you as a role model, like the bigger brother I always wanted. Life is fucking AWESOME!
Thats awesome Xavi
When I first discovered your gold mine of a website, I knew I found a second home. Where I can come and share ideas and philosophy to others about PE, Kratom and Fitness. Before I knew NOTHING about fitness and nutrition. Now I know a fuck ton...
When I first discovered your gold mine of a website, I knew I found a second home. Where I can come and share ideas and philosophy to others about PE, Kratom and Fitness. Before I knew NOTHING about fitness and nutrition. Now I know a fuck ton because of you. This I will take with me for the rest of my life and know I will never experience of being unfit and unhealthy again.
Also thank you for sharing Kratom with everyone. This has changed my life! There was so many days in 2013 when I was feeling like in a dark hole of depression. When I burned Kratom it made those days so much better. I also believe Kratom cured my migraine headaches. I usually get them every 2 months or so, since I started burning I have NEVER experienced a migraine since! I no longer feel worthless and undeserving. I seriously believe Kratom kept me from becoming an alcoholic and cigarette smoker. I forgot to mention prevented me from taking Anti-Depression meds and Chris, I have you to thank for that! I owe you my life.
Box Man.
Thank you Boxxx --- I really appreciate your contributions as well. Seriously
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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