As I mentioned in "Seeking Validation- Your Biggest Obstacle To Screening/Getting A Ton of Hot Pussy and Beating 'I Hope She Likes Me…' v1.x," your biggest obstacle to HUGE success with women, adopting a "screening mentality" instead of a submissive "I hope she likes me..." mindset and legitimate inner game development is- Seeking validation from women.
I also told my story about how was looking for validation for a few years and it totally slowed my progress down. Actually for a good 25 years, I was doing things I didn't like to do to try and impress people I didn't like or about about! Not a great way to live. I seemingly stopped looking for validation by getting a fair amount of high-quality pussy in the Summer of 2009- after that, I just wanted pussy and I got a ton for the next 18 months.
I also mentioned that I didn't really have a way for you guys to stop 'seeking validation' and that you'd have to figure it out.
Coincidentally, a post appeared on the forums at FastSeduction.com and PersonalPowerMeditation.com from Illuminatus which REALLY expressed some insightful thoughts and actionable steps that you can take to remove the need for validation.