You've made it to the beginning of the end of our program "How to Go Out Alone to Bars".

I really want you to finish the job.

Remember, there's 2 types of guys -

You are on your way to group 1. 

If you weren't happy with your performance in Week 8, please go back and get the job done right.

Hopefully you haven't skipped the The First Month because you felt it was too easy.

If you are truly following our program, by now, you've been out by yourself at least 12 times.

Hopefully more.

You should be proud.

Really.

Welcome to the first month of our "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" program.

The first month of this program is fairly easy and is largely meant to give guys a reason to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE and work on the very beginnings of controlled exposure therapy and the very very beginnings of Killer Instinct (aggressiveness). 

Killer Instinct, as you know, is the primary factor that separates guys that Get Laid a lot at night and the guys who end up with a bunch of phone numbers.

While you've always had the option of going out alone - it's not an easy task to "just go pick up girls" if you have approach anxiety.

In fact, going out by yourself at night and having a productive (let alone not miserable night) is virtually impossible.

Welcome to Part 2 of our "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" program.

We are going to discuss what you need to know and do if you are going to take this seriously.

This is very important.

This is what we are going to discuss -

There is Nothing "Normal" About This Program

Opportunity Means Nothing (Part 2)

In Part I of "Opportunity Means Nothing", I discussed 3 different perfect 'opportunities' I had in 2007 with the same, beautiful girl where I was too much of a pussy to pull the trigger (or do anything).

Worst of all, these 'opportunities' were literally handed to me and I just didn't have the balls to capitalize. 

And I knew it.

I literally watched each one slip through my hands, as I had so many times in my early 20's.

Opportunity Means Nothing (Part 1)

Recently, I've discussed the theme of "The Comfortable Life" and why most people won't ever be or accomplish jack shit.

I argue that the average person does not lack work ethic, opportunity or the adequate talent for significant success. 

He simply leads a comfortable enough life that he will voluntarily forgo the pursuit of success in exchange for modern conveniences and distractions that prevent him from hitting rock bottom.

Basically - his life is too 'okay enough' to really want anything more.

The Reason Might Surprise You...

Despite popular school, underachievement is not caused by the usual suspects - lack of work ethic, lack of opportunity or lack of talent.

The reason most people don't succeed with women (or much in their lives) is far more obvious and far more pathetic.

I know what your biggest obstacle is.

It's the reason why you'll never get your sex life together or reach your "dating goals". (whatever that means)

Saturday Nights (2002-2006) Were Worst Nights of My Life

This post is meant for those in their 20's who stayed home alone tonight, seemingly so far removed from the social scene and a sex life, comfortably marinating in self-doubt.

This is for you.

I've been there.

"Lonely Saturday Nights"(Me, Myself and Reality - Living Together in a One-Bedroom Apartment)

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Hey Losers -

We have a new YouTube channel to handle any/all video content from Lifestyle by Good Looking Loser, also known "Get-A-Life" -

Right now, there's only a handful of videos on there.

One shows the anti-aging 'Egg White Facial' that I think (only been doing in for ~3 months) to be useful. 

"Verbal Screening"(socially acceptable, non-crass ways to ask chicks to sleep with you)

updated: March 17 2019 - haha - "Netflix and Chill" was originally our 'idea', but now it's mainstream!

If you are home on this Saturday night, it better be with your fuckbuddy half-naked next to you while you both read Good Looking Loser. I spent way too many Saturday nights at home in my 20's. I regret it too.

If you can't talk to girls at night, just go out and see if you can make eye contact (+ smile) with girls or go watch other guys interact with random girls check out our program. Even if you don't say a word the entire time - it's better for your "game" than reading my disgraceful creepy blog.

I did a video (see below) and wasn't going to do a post on this 'common sense' topic but I decided it was a good idea that everyone see this.