Sexually Transmitted Diseases!
Someone on YouTube asked me what I thought of STD’s and general ways to prevent them.
Obviously- the key is not get them in the first place.
A quick search on Google revealed the same generic “advice” and nothing that most of us don’t already know.
- Assistance is the best way to completely avoid STD’s.
- Only sleep with partners after you have both been tested.
- Using a condom and practicing safe-sex can significantly reduce exposure to STD’s.
Of the three, only #3 is practical for our lifestyle.
Obviously advice like-
“Stay at home. In fact- wrap yourself in plastic wrap and foil any time you answer the door,”
is essentially useless to us.
Hopefully this quick post and video sheds some light on STD’s and gives unique emergency way to prevent them if you think you’ve been infected.
Unless you are fucking pigs or mosquitoes that carry viruses,* selecting your partners wisely (or at least trying to) will certainly play a factor in avoid disease, after all- it takes two to share a disease.
* that was a joke, but it made no sense.
Sexually Transmitted Diseases; Non-Mainstream Emergency Prevention, How To Screen Girls for STD’s
A Complete Stereotype of the Women I’ve Been With
For the record, as of June 2013, I have not have contracted any STD’s.
The two times that I had a “scare” (my screening method was iffy and I was really drunk), I immediately went through most of the emergency procedure I talk about in the video. There’s not guarantee that my little method worked but it certainly didn’t hurt.
For the record, as of June 2013, I have not impregnated any women.
Other than literally 2 or 3 times, I have always used a condom with new partners. These days, I take it as seriously if not more seriously.
The times that the condom split- I made sure the girl grabbed the morning after pill, often I accompanied her to get it the following morning. It’s about $40 at a pharmacy and it’s free in Los Angeles at those planned parenthood clinics.
To me, and others with a brain, if you don’t want to make a child – WRAP UP YOUR DICK.
I’ve always known that and taken it seriously, maybe because of where (and how) I was raised – having illegitimate children was just about my worst fear.
(in a high school case of about 600-700 students, there was maybe 2 girls who got pregnant)
You were trash if you had a kid before age 21.
Long Discussion With Myself On Why I Wasn’t Concerned that My Girls Had STD’s
long random video, for guys that really want to know where I’m coming from.
All this recent discussion on STD’s is somewhat new to me (as you can see, I really have to think about stuff), to be honest- I was never super concerned.
For one, I always have condoms with me (yeah 2 of them, in my wallet) and my partners just aren’t the types that don’t care about get pregnant or STD’s. Because of their obsession with their “careers” and social status, they just aren’t the types that usually have STD’s. That might sound totally naive but that’s how I’ve viewed it for years.
While it’s IMPOSSIBLE to stereotype every girl I’ve been with, or even the “type” of girl I hook up with- the girls I’ve slept with never struck me as irresponsible. Maybe that is wishful thinking, but I’ve never had an STD’s and hopefully won’t ever get one.
College girls might get wild, but they aren’t usually irresponsible when it comes to their sexual health. Neither are these ‘higher status’ LA babes. It’s not “okay” to them if a random guy like myself cums in them and sends them home.
to download the video goto: http://www.keepvid.com
For what my opinion is worth-
(and again, it’s my opinion you are free to disagree and judge)
Even those I’ve gotten down with girls very quickly, sometimes in less than 30 minutes, I don’t think the vast majority of the girls were “trashy” and wouldn’t have cared if I didn’t wear a condom.
I’m not into trashy girls.
These girls would probably strike you as popular “high [social] status” girls.
(I describe these girls in the “Swag Factor” article)
There’s a difference between a girl who looks (and dresses up) sexy and a girl that is straight up trashy.
Admittedly, Hollywood has blurred this line.
The majority of girls don’t look like “sluts” and their experience levels widely varies.
Obviously, I don’t really get to know the girl unless they become my fuckbuddy for a month or so, but the majority of the girls I end up with are fairly ambitious (or at least somewhat driven) women.
They don’t want to get pregnant.
Their friends aren’t single mothers.
They are from at least middle class families and don’t want to live on the state (a lot of them have rich parents, for some reason).
They think girls that get pregnant or infected are irresponsible white trash (there, I said it.).
Their social reputation alone discourages them from practicing anything but safe sex.
They are usually college girls or [try to play the role of] career-minded individuals, even though by most standards- their ‘career’ choices (actress, model, entertainment, singer, MILF in training, fitness girl, whatever) are considered quite superficial.
Again, ambitious/driven girls- that doesn’t necessarily mean “smart” (raw intelligence) or “desk job”.
Take hot college girls for example, at major universities (not the ones at community colleges that with poor high school grades and test scores, work a part-time job and don’t have a social circle)- they want to party, they want to be popular, they want to have sex and experiment with their bodies (and drugs and alcohol)- but VERY FEW of them are willing to jeopardize their future (and social standing) by getting pregnant, getting a disease or getting a drug habit.
Does that make sense?
I’m trying to give you guys an idea of who these girls are.
These women wouldn’t strike you as irresponsible sluts. In fact, I [like to] think they are pretty selective about who they sleep with.
The best way to describe it because I was quite like this myself- these girls are simply in the ‘party stage’ of their lives but that doesn’t mean they are completely irresponsible. Just because they are out drinking and partying at age 22, doesn’t mean they are going to be doing the same thing in 5 or 10 years, or even a year from now (they general begin the serious career/boyfriend search at age 23-24). Just because they are party girls, hungry for attention, doesn’t mean they don’t have a brain and wouldn’t panic (and call their parents) if a random guy were to cum in them.
Though it seems like a paradox- “responsible party girls,” that’s how I’m going I’m going to sum it up.
Maybe “not irresponsible party girls” is better. Those are women that made it into my bed in the past 4.5 years.
Again, this is my opinion. It is IMPOSSIBLE to stereotype or generalize all the women I’ve been with. And That’s not even because I’ve “been with soooooo many,” it’s because it’s a stereotype, while true for the most- lend themselves to obvious exceptions. Certainly there were some girls that even struck me as “trashy” but I’ve also ended up with virgins that have never had a boyfriend.
(related post: “Aggressiveness Only Gets Sluts?”)
Non-Mainstream Way to [Potentially] Prevent STD’s
(emergency method, in addition to condom use)
This post and especially this sub-topic is subject to our medical disclaimer.
This is NOT a substitute for safe sex and condom use.
This method is not proven to prevent the exchange of sexually transmitted diseases.
Ask your doctor about this method or he has any other ‘do-it-yourself’ methods that you can do in addition to practicing safe sex.
This is my emergency method to prevent STD’s, I’ve used it in-full 2 times and in-part a few more times.
Based on the clinical studies I gathered (and also the vote of confidence from a medical professional) it should significantly reduce the chances of being infected by an STD’s (assuming is remains alive on the surface on your genital region).
Like I mention in the video, I always use condoms and though it’s wishful thinking- I highly doubt my most of my partners have/have been exposed to STD’s. To put it in perspective, I don’t get real kinky with 1st time partners. It takes a little while to build trust to experiment with girls.
I also have “screening” methods that I mention in the video that seem to shed light on if they have been exposed to any STD’s.
This routine might be overkill but it beats getting Herpes or HIV (right?)
1. Prior to sex/getting naked, put Purell/Hand Sanitizer on your dick and rub it in.
This kills 99% of bacteria and might be helpful to defend against any viruses that someone end up on the inside of the condom.
2. Before going down on a girl or putting your dick in her, spray a liberal amount of PJUR MED (not an affiliate link) on her pussy and your dick.
This formula doesn’t have alcohol and the active ingredient ‘Chloroxylenol’ is clinically proven to kill Herpes, HIV and potentially other STDs. You can spray it in your mouth and her pussy. It tastes like sugar water.
I actually keep a bottle of it in my car and slip it in my pocket if I end up at the girl’s place.
If you know me though- you’ll know that I end up at MY PLACE 98% of the time. I’m HUGE on having ideal logistics where I can control EVERYTHING.
(in the video I talk about ‘what to do’ if you are uncomfortable about spraying the girl with this stuff)
*** Put on a condom now ***
Condoms with spermacide may kill various virus strains and bacteria cultures as well.
A nurse I used to see at UCLA Hospital told me this. It certainly couldn’t hurt.
3. After sex, especially if you’ve gone down on a girl, go into the bathroom is begin to rinse your mouth with Listerine mouthwash.
Listerine is clinically proven to kill Herpes Simplex among other virus/bacteria. Rinse your mouth for 60-75 seconds if you can. I can’t, it’s way too strong. I dilute it with water and just try my best to hit 60 seconds. Listerine makes a ‘sensitive gums’ formula (the purple one) that one is a little easier to use.
4. While rinsing your mouth with Listerine, just like in step number #1 apply Purell back on your ENTIRE crotch region, rub it in until it goes away.
5. After you dick is dry – spray PJUR on it once again, spray it until it’s REALLY wet. You can spray it in your penis hole and I recommend that you do. Don’t worry- it doesn’t hurt.
6. While it’s wet, pour and/or rub 99% Rubbing Alcohol on your dick (91% isopropyl alcohol will probably suffice), rub it ALL AROUND your genital area. Rub it around vigorously.
Isopropyl Alcohol kills HIV, Hepatitis and Herpes ON CONTACT and is likely the most effective compound to kill STDs that may remain on the surface. This is probably the MOST IMPORTANT step.
7. Dry your dick off with a towel.
*8. Spray your crotch AGAIN with PJUR, again make it REALLY WET. (optional)
*9. While it’s soaking wet, spray Lysol on your dick. It won’t hurt or irritate your region because you’ve diluted the area with Pjur. (optional)
You can use the the Lysol sanitizing wipes as a replacement. Make sure whatever you are using has “Benzalkonium Chloride”.
This might seem crazy but Lysol (benzalkonium chloride) kills Herpes, HIV and potentially other STDs (gonorrhea that is still topical) that the Purell, alcohol and Pjur might not have a killed.
*10. Leave the Lysol on, since you sprayed the area with Pjur (which has a water base), it shouldn’t irritate your skin. It’s never irritated mine.
*11. If the condom is in the trash, spray it with Lysol too.