Like Swag Factor, this concept of “Killer Instinct” is an in-depth look at one of the main, yet seldom discussed factors involved in GETTING LAID.
Killer Instinct can be considered the “second half” of Social Freedom.
Killer Instinct is how comfortable, assertive and determined you are in taking things to the next level.
While Killer Instinct is a ‘scumbag’ attribute, it’s not exclusive to that type of guy.
While “Instinct” suggests that it’s a natural characteristic, it’s not – it can be developed.
We’ll discuss all these things.
In my opinion-
Killer Instinct is rarely discussed by mainstream dating/PUA because those genres are devoted to “Meeting Women” rather than actually sleeping with them.
That is why things like “text game” and “how-to-trick-her-to-make-her-like-you” exist. Don’t confuse “meeting women” or “dating” for Get Laid.
It’s a totally different goal.
If there’s ever any question on who fucks hot girls and who doesn’t- ask yourself-
Does this guy really have masculine killer instinct?
Or just a bunch of “intelligent” theories?
Any [normal] guy that sleeps with a lot of girls will tell you that Killer Instinct is HUGE factor, an expression of confidence and masculinity that separates them undersexed norm.
If ever want to find peace in knowing, “I can go out 2 or 3 times a week and Get Laid at least once,” you have got to develop some Killer Instinct.
If you always want to land chicks in your bed in under an hour, provided the logistics- you have got to develop some Killer Instinct.
If you ever want to have a relationship where you automatically retain vast majority of the power, regardless of your emotional, financial or social situation- you have got to develop some Killer Instinct and your partner should be quite aware of it.
So yeah- it’s kind of a big deal.
Even good looking guys will have an average sex life if they don’t have much Killer Instinct.
Trust me, I know.
Video: Killer Instinct (Advanced Social Freedom)
There is A LOT of useful stuff in the video that may not appear in the text below.
Table of Contents
00:00 Introduction & What u got in that bottle playboy??? (BCAAs & Happy Hippo I Kratom)
01:20 What is Killer Instinct? (Advanced Social Freedom)
03:05 Killer, Killer Instinct Success Analogy = Mike Tyson, Randy Moss, Roger Clemens
07:55 Killer Instinct Separates Guys that Get Laid Alot, Quick vs. Not A lot
08:40 Examples/Scenarios of Killer Instinct, Impact vs. Not Killer Instinct
13:30 Killer Instinct, Tagging Girls = Game
17:15 Mr. Smooth is busy being smooth instead of getting laid
18:15 PUA has very little Killer Instinct
18:45 Get Laid, Killer Instinct vs. Meet Women, Make her like you (PUA, mainstream dating)
20:00 Aggressive Killer Instinct isn’t actually instinct, you can develop it
21:35 If you are trying to Get Laid – when a girl likes you, the next step is to sleep with her
22:25 Things like “Kiss Close” and “Text Game” are ridiculous to normal guys that Get Laid a lot
24:00 Developing Killer Instinct
25:25 RANT – Girls don’t have to be completely comfortable to go along with what you are doing. Excitement beats Comfortable
28:45 Scotty’s Insight from 2008
31:50 “The Window” of sexually availability and “Maybe Girls”
35:30 Lack of Killer Instinct = The reason why I still wasn’t getting laid a ton in 2010
40:00 Kill that twat son
Killer Instinct Analogies: Mike Tyson, Randy Moss, Roger Clemens (03:05)
Regardless if you think that Mike Tyson was actually a “good” boxer, he was successful. Highly successful.
He was twice (or three times?) crowned undisputed heavyweight champion of the world. What set Iron Mike apart from other boxers was his killer instinct. Not only was he insane but he had the rare speed and power that could break someone’s jaw in 2/10ths of a second. In his prime, he held the psychological edge over every opponent that he faced, including boxers like Evander Hollyfield that bigger and more fundamentally sound. Tyson would bury his opponents when the opportunity presented itself, often within the first three minutes. Rather than fighting a finesse game, Tyson was looking for the kill shot in every round.
When he was part of the pickup community, Scotty earned the tag “White Tyson,” unlike majority of the folklore in the PUA world, this reputation was much deserved.
I’m not looking for an argument of how work ethic/being a good teammate is part of killer instinct, I’m simply talking about Randy Moss’ skill.
Randy’s game (skill) was still Killer. He was truly looking to score on every play and had the talent to do so.
Like Tyson, Moss could cook his competition in a matter of seconds and is considered [one of] the most explosive wideouts of a all-time. There’s not many football players that were actually a treat to score on every play. Despite the admitted mental lapses, Moss was still arguably the most feared player in the history of the game.
In my opinion, Clemens is as competitive and killer as a baseball player could be. If you crowded the plate, he’d throw a 98mph fastball at your head.
He wasn’t scared of anyone and looking to throw the same fastball by everybody he faced even if it meant throwing the exact same pitch over and over.
Clemens turned up the intensity and his game WHEN IT MATTERS- in the playoffs.
Killer Instinct- What Separates Great from Good (07:55)
The ability to “pull the trigger” at any phase of the interaction is Killer Instinct, it’s not a just a bedroom thing.
Guys that Get Laid a lot understand ‘sexual availability’ and never assume it’s going to last. They have developed Killer Instinct to POUNCE on the opportunity ASAP. Their interactions may begin to resemble foreplay quite quickly. They goal remains the same- have sex with the girl. Once they know a girl likes them, they are making preparations to fulfill that goal and not trying to make the girl “like them more”.
Due to their aggressiveness, they naturally attract girls that are DTF and screen out the ones that are not. They are rarely talking to the wrong chicks and there is rarely much resistance in the end.
Guys who have not developed much Killer Instinct don’t sleep with as many girls and don’t really have much of a chance of landing same day or night pussy. The lack of aggressiveness and harmless persona tends to attract girls that want boyfriends and girls that want attention. The lack of aggressiveness also limits the actual quantity of girls they can speak to and how far they can take those girls in a 1-6 hour (sexually-charge nighttime environment).
They won’t meet or sleep with as many girls as aggressive guys because LITERALLY- they might be texting or “working on” a girl while a guy with killer instinct is getting a blowjob. You can still get solid results with low levels of Killer Instinct, but just be prepared to end up on a lot of dates. That was the territory I was in in my first 18-20 months of hitting on lots of girls.
Small/Random Examples of Killer Instinct (8:40)
- Instead of standing there talking to a girl that likes you, you grab her hand and walk her to a sofa/table.
- Instead of asking for a phone number, you tell the “lets chill” and begin to take her to a already planned spot.
- Instead of continuing to makeout with a girl, you say “lets get some air” and walk her outside the place.
- Instead of walking beside (or following) a girl, you grab her by the hand and lead her to wherever you want to be.
- Instead of looking for signs that the girl is “ready for something,” you just do it.
- Instead of looking for signs that the girl is “now ready for something,” if you get stopped the first time, you do it again.
- Countless more examples: Anything that displays leadership in the direction of sex is probably Killer Instinct.
Killer Instinct = Game (13:30)
Watch the video if you want to hear about this one.
So many people, including myself years ago, have no idea what “game” is.
If you consider game to be “How Many How Girls You’ve Fucked,” arguably, KILLER INSTINCT is the most important factor and is forever more important than being/looking smooth.
Guys with Killer Instinct Get Laid.
Guys that are smooth (or trying to be) don’t as much because they are constantly playing it safe because they are afraid to look bad.
Normal guys that get a lot pussy usually drink a fair amount and look sloppy. They Get Laid because they are aggressive and have the goal of GETTING LAID and not the goal of “being smooth”. They are willing to look like a creep and know it’s not their fault if they run into some uptight girl that has unhealthy views of sex.
Developing Killer Instinct (20:00)
There’s several ways to develop Killer Instinct. They are discussed more in-depth in the video.
- Knowing it exists.
- Admit you’ve been a pussy.
- Knowing why it’s better than whatever your doing.
- Beating your need for validation that keeps as an undersexed pussy.
- Screening girls with physical dialogue instead of trying to convince them to like you.
- Taking baby steps by displaying leadership when you aren’t super comfortable.
- Taking baby steps by displaying leadership when you know the girl might not be super comfortable.
- Having a gameplan that ends on your bed with her panties on your floor.
- Reflecting on moments when you could have shown leadership but instead played it safe. (don’t reflect too much)
- Only take advice from guys that you know have Killer Instinct.
Scotty’s Insight (28:45)
Remember [supposedly] why you are hitting on women in the first place.
Watch the video.
The Window and Maybe Girls (31:50)
If you “believe” in the concept of numbers game and sexually availability, where NOT-EVERY-SINGLE-GIRL-IS-DOWN-TO-FUCK-AT-ALL-TIMES, you’ll know understand that a “window” exists.
I call this the “window of availability”.
In the finite window of time, you can fuck the girl.
The window can open and close, for a number of reasons. Alcohol is certainly one and I list about 60+ more in the link above.
Assuming you look good, have cool style and can hit on girls, the majority of [available] chicks will “maybe” fuck you. The maybe isn’t based on your looks, style, social freedom however.
It is based on- CAN YOU MAKE IT HAPPEN?
Good Looks, Style, Social Freedom, Still Not Getting Laid A Ton =
Lack Killer Instinct (35:30-end)
In 2010, I fulfilled my goal of having 4 hot fuckbuddies in Los Angeles.
While I was happy, it took longer than I wanted to get all the girls in bed and I still didn’t feel I could go out and Get Laid though on any given night, even though I seemingly had everything together.
The next (last) step was to get aggressive and live near the bars/clubs I hit up.