I Love You, I Love You
Gameplan in this video is to get this cute girl in my car ASAP.
Works.
interaction starts at 11:22 — pause it at 14:42 u finally see what she looks like
Please watch pre-video commentary however. 
Transcript credit to “Horny,” GLL Forum Member.
http://goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=751.msg6166#msg6166
-11:30 Follow a lone girl out the store from behind saying in a normal voice: “I love you x3, HEY, I love u, I love u (*giggles*) did I tell you I love you? (yeah u did) I did? yeah? It’s true. I know it’s kinda random, I thought u were attractive and I wanted to come say hi [extand hand for handshake] (*she just laughs and steps back) aren’t you gonna tell me I’m attractive too? (yeah, haha) Thanks, I’m Chris btw (Aisha) Aisha? That’s a nice name Aisha
-12:13 Without saying anything, Chris moves a few steps to a comfortable spot where he can lean against the wall. She automatically follows as she has been holding his hand since the handshake (NOTE!) Soo, what are u up to today (i don’t know) like shopping for shoes or something? (books) books? yeah? are you a nerd? (not a nerd) not a nerd. u look like… u look like u play the drums (guitar) guitar? seriously? (yeah) nice, are u in a bad? (no) I look like I play the drums. Yeah, u believe it? (no) yeah? what tells you no? x4 [each time more playfully. Chris pulls her hand to his chest as he repeats this, even pulling her little body off-balance] (I don’t believe you) u don’t believe me, why don’t u believe me? (I dont know) u know what? I have no musical talent whatsoever hahaha
-13:03 that’s not fair. you’re supposed to believe I play the drums [POWERFUL LEADING - LITERALLY TELLING HER WHAT SHE'S SUPPOSED TO BELIEVE!!] (u told me you don’t) you’re a smart cookie, u know that? uh huh, a little too smart for your own good (what do u mean?) I’m sorry, I’m sorry, let’s keep it real, no more… this isn’t beer btw, it’s IBC diet root, makes it good… no, no, tell me little about you, where u from? (X) where in X? (by Y) you’re not from elko, are u? I always drive through there and I get a ticket for speeding, do u know what I’m talking about? [again pulls her hand to his chest] have u gotten a ticket there? (i don’t know) it’s a speedtrap (is it?) yeah (maybe u shouldn’t speed) i don’t know, cos it goes on the highway and then it goes through the town, it’s like they built the highway first and then they built the town (haha) u know what I’m saying? (yeah) like purposely to just fuck with me (haha)
-14:10 [re-grab the hand that he let go earlier] so, what more about you, u do music right? are u in a band? (u already asked me that) did I? I have a bad memory, plus I’m drinking. nah, it’s root beer (hah) no, you’re tough, you’re tough haha you’re very cute, like a little girl, a little little girl [the words "little" are emphasized by moving her hand up and down that Chris is gently holding by a three fingers] let’s spin the little girl around [reverse spin her, she's ALL SMILES] a little more about you though, what else u into? (art, I like art) yeah? what kind of art? (I like to draw) draw? drawing… with a name like Aisha, it’s weird how u do that, I can just see your little signature or something at the bottom of the page (bla) uh huh, yeah?
-15:12 so what are u doing this weekend? (I don’t know) playing on pintrest or something? (going out with friends) put your little outfit on and go out with friends haha (haha) [whisper in her ear] you’re tiny, u know that? (you’re a player) what’d u say? (you’re a player) I’m not a player, you’re a player (you’re a player ha) you’re a player (you’re a player) no, you’re a player (you’re a player hah) don’t call me, your mom’s a player (girls breaks down in laughter) Aww, you lost there, u lost there, ur mom’s a player, no u gave it up (I gave it up) I know, u got destroyed [stroke from her shoulder to hand, then hold it] u got taken out (haha ok) u did, u did (I did) u got some time to chill out now? (yeah, completely) really? (really) alriht, cmon, follow me, we’ll go in my car. You’re tiny.
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crazy shit right there!:D
btw, you sound a bit surprised when she said she had time to hang out?
like… “REALLY???”
haha, you are completely correct..
genuinely surprised me
i talk about that in the pre-video talk.
i do that in the other video with the high5, girl calls me attractive and I’m actually surprised because I didnt see it coming so quickly
Your video was posted on /r/cringe on reddit, that’s probably why it has that many downvotes…
http://www.reddit.com/r/cringe/comments/12ynkg/pick_up_artist_seducing_a_teen_girl/
Sorry I meant dislikes on Youtube.
hahahah what a bunch of complete losers
thanks for the update! funny that they call me “pickup artist” and “seduces”
those reddit guys are weird. i give props to any guy who pulls a girl into a car and presumably bangs her no matter what he does and what he looks like. results count. everything else is bullshit.
yeah man– the majority of the reddit crowd makes mainstream pickup artists look cool
Haven’t tried leading girls with my hands right from the start, gotta try it ASAP. Great vid, like usual!
GLL, did you fuck her in the end?
I know it sounds lame and you’ll have to forgive me- I can’t get into that stuff, my lawyer has me draw the line there. just assume though, that the girls that end up in my car are DTF and I have it all handled.
Great vids you put up here!! Any videos of you pulling girls out of the clubs/bars/streets at night?
Thanks man, yup– you’ll see some of those in the coming months
Chris…I am a fan.I consult your site on a regular basis and enjoy doing so.I am impressed at your level of
confidence and ease with women.I will be honest and say that I found this vid to be a little “unsettling”
(maybe that’s too strong a word) because of the girls age, nervousness, physical stature;You did nothing
wrong…she’s legally an adult but still at that giggly-little girl stage.
I think that your best work…was your health-food store pickup (one with the cart)…If I can use a sports
analogy…That one was a 18 strike-out.no-hit perfect game …Whereas this one was an ugly win BUT as
Wayne Gretzky once said.”They don’t ask how…They ask how much”. You get them anyway that you
can.
Continued success….look forward to your forthcoming vids.
Hey you are the only person that has explained this to me. So thanks, everything is completely legal as you know.
What most people dont see is that she’s nervous because she likes me, not because she doesn’t.
Yeah there’s a lot of people mad because I’m 30 and she’s 18.. and I’m tall and muscular. not a lot I can do about that.
I appreciate your explanation, I changed the title to the video because somehow it makes people think this is “rape” in progress hahaha
GLL,
I am pretty good will the ladies, and I am getting better. But I am nowhere near your success rate. After seeing some of your infield videos where the girl ends up going back to your car, I assume that you engage in some type of sex, whether it be oral, intercourse or etc. My question is, how do you (GLL) meet a girl, and within minutes, literally get her to have sex with you? The minimum amount of time it took me from meeting a girl to having sex with her was about three hours. So, how does one get to such a (advanced) stage in his game like you are now?
P.S, What do you think about Paul Janka? I’m a big fan of Mr. Janka and it appears that you are inspired by his particular method.
Hey Mikee-
Thanks for writing in.
What do you mean my ‘success rate’? I haven’t really discussed it in a numbers sorta way besides here, where im literally doing EXACTLY what Paul does-
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/07/05/getting-girls-is-a-numbers-game/
The funny part is, I do all/most of this stuff in LA.. I’ve met all the “puas” etc etc.. I never heard of Paul until this year when someone told me that my “basic/average guy game” (see the link) is what Paul got on TV for and we have identical numbers.
3 hours is super good, remember Ive been doing this stuff since 2007ish… and I took about 2.5-3 years OFF from everything except the gym to go try and get laid, no work, only a part-time job at best 2 days a week at most. This stuff “happens” fast because I have a gameplan ALREADY in mind. For example, back at my friend’s house … I already have the guest room setup, drinks out, hes 2-3mins away there’s no guesswork in this whatsoever. if youve seen the other videos, I use the same lines and shit.
in my opinion, this is all about EXECUTING your gameplan, a lot of guys go out and talk to women and one they have one that likes them and is DTF, they just keeping talking to her and dont know what to do. dont let that happen.
http://goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=84.0 (about gameplans, there’s only 2 to consider)
I like what I’ve seen of Paul, weirdly I never met him, but thats cause im on the other side of the country and I dont know if he still does this stuff for the public. Paul I know is real, he has a good looking guy that plays the numbers game. there so many complete frauds in this industry but Paul is legit
Man.. that was awesome bro. I really liked the hand thing you did. I’ve always hesitated to touch a girl that quickly after meeting her. I know you cant say.. but I known damn well you banged her lol any girl willing to jump in your car like that is definitely sexually available. This wasn’t “rape” or anything of the sort in my eyes.. I’m a 22 year old 6’2 athletic black guy and I am in San Jose sometimes hitting on shy asian women who look 20 but are really like early 30s… so it looks like “rape” too lol Great vid man looking forward to seeing more
Thanks man, I appreciate it. The funny part is the majority of guys hate the “hand thing”.. you get that I grab this girl’s hand to “see if she lets me” (SCREENING) cause if shes lets me, its evidence that shes probably. DTF if I can handle the logistics. its not to “make her like me” or “avoid rejection” or “make her laugh”… the stuff that other guys do.
yeah, it’s going to be interesting for guys who try this try of aggressive stuff for the 1st time. I will say though, Scotty, the other guy on GLL has his WHOLE body tatted up. 4-5tattoos on his FACE. So I guarantee that he comes off as more of a “rapist” “criminal” than you or I ever would… and guess what.. he invented this stuff.
im not sure what people are seeing but I grabbed her hand after she had a huge smile on her face, how is that “high risk”.. i mean thanks, im super super ballsy.. but not really
btw- I can tell simply from the way you write that you one of the more intelligent guys here, I think you’ll be fine. obviously i haven’t met you, but if you are 22/black/athletic… dress nicely, I usually tell people to dress with ‘edge’ and its true… but my black friends that get top-shelf different races all just dress “nice”.. GQ, Arian Foster (RB-Texas) comes to mind.. haha I dont mean I know arian foster, google him though
hey, one thing that make you a lot like PUAs is that when u post a video u show only “success stories”, while hiding information about what’s most important: how many girls did you have to approach before her and “screen out”; I think you should tell this every time so that noone thinks delusionaly that you are some kind of uber player. Let people know the truth in every video you post. And I’m asking this now: how many girls did you approach that went nowhere until you meet this one ? I estimate it’s around 30-50.
You’re right, That information is in the forum and sometimes its in the pre-video notes. So I’m not hiding it, you’ve been the only one who’s asked me so I didn’t consider it a big deal. It ended up being about 30, the entire weekend, because on Sunday (not on video) I approached a whole bunch of girls and not that much was working until we went back to the mall (i dont tape in there anymore) and creeped in the food court,, specifically looking for girls on break from work.
But even that number ~30, I really dont count these, is a low number to score 3 girls off of. What helps in this, is that I need 20-25minutes (I say an hour)… the place is literally right around the corner. I have it all handled. I learned this when I lived at the beach, 100s of girls walking by my front door everyday. I found a workable gameplan and its plays a key role in this stuff.
Over these 2 specific videos it was 8 or 9. Where as, if i werent as “lucky,” I’d estimate it’d be 20-40 per girl. Honestly a lot these girls in this area got nothing to do, they are killing time. especially closer to the beach like i mentioned.. you want me to do a video on this? I will cause its a reasonable question
http://goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=751.msg6069#msg6069
Hey man, I think to encourage people doing that kind of stuff you should basically continue doing this kind of videos, but also post videos of you getting rejected to show the world that it’s not a big deal. Of course it’s not as glorious, but it’s better to show people EXACTLY what to expect when screening girls, including the negative side. Will you do this one day or do you think it’s a waste of time ?
Yup we’ll do that sometime sure, each video is 1GB+ because of the little phone hook up we do it on, so ive been selective on what I upload,caption, etc. etc… but about 50 guys want to see ‘rejection’ (screen OUT) videos where the girl isnt DTF.. so ill have those up sometime soon
GLL,
Thanks for your response to my previous post!
Can you write an article on what attracts women to guys, in general? Also, on how to treat different girls? For example, an average looking girl compared to a hot, bitch one?
here’s your answer– there’s no need to complicate things-
LOOKS, STYLE, SOCIAL FREEDOM are the things you need [to be at least at an above-average level] to fuck A LOT of HOT girls. Looks and Style = Sex Appeal
so its Sex Appeal + Social Freedom.. that is it
remember our shit is about GETTING LAID
not “meet women” “avoid rejection” “make her like you” “where to go on a date”
none of that soft shit… well some of it
LOOKS
STYLE
SOCIAL FREEDOM
thats 98% of it
things like ambitious, money, intelligence, well-roundedness, commonalities are part of relationships and retaining fuckbuddies, etc. not much of a factor in GETTING LAID
LOOKS
STYLE
SOCIAL FREEDOM
treat them all the same
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/04/21/screening-game/
have a look around, I’m happy to have you here
Chris
Great videos, i like your style direct, honest and fast. i was suprised that people said that the videos where umimpresive and simple, i mean what they expected, that you are gonna start flying, trowing fire balls out of your mouth, seduce her with jedi mind tricks and start fucking her in plain street. i think that if you are he type then what you say dont matter and metting women is simple there is no need to overcomplicate it
i have a question, this what you normaly do or you tone down a bit the aggresion for legal reasons?
Hey Joe- thank you very much.. yeah I think those that think that this is boring have never tried talking to women and watched too many movies. This kinda stuff in real life is pretty aggressive. Good question- this is basically what I do. More aggressive at night, but this is basically it. Scotty is more aggressive, im flying to NYC to get him on video in December
Hi man, I love your site, and this is a great video. IMO it’s not creepy at all, if she had wanted to leave, she could have done so at any moment. But some (stupid) people on Reddit are not able to see that.
So are you ok to post videos of you getting rejected ? I’m sure it’d be a good idea to show people that getting rejected is not a big deal.
If you don’t want to approve this message just tell me why by email, the one I provided this time is working
. Maybe you misunderstood the other I left as being still another PUA scammer criticizing you but I’m not, I’m more like a fan of your site.
Keep up the good work !
Hey brotha— thank you very much! and yes, I’ll be putting together some video of “rejections” aka the girl isn’t available for me or anyone else.
the videos shot via this phone mod. are like 1GB each.. HUGE. so we have to be selective about which we upload.. but yeah, soon ill put something together for ya
Ok thanks man, much appreciated !
That was a nice pull bro!
FUCK YEAH!!!
Glad I found your site. Quite a few PUA companies have a lot of extra stuff that I don’t think is really necessary to bang girls. Self actualization,meditation,excessive peer group advice and over the top peacocking etc… Glad you guy’s keep it real.
I also like how you grabbed her hand and put it on you. Then would let go here and ther and grab again. Gonna be adding that in.
For your pre video commentary it would look and sound better if you had a stand for your phone/camera. I think the way you held it messed up the sound.
Not talking shit just seemed like an easy way to up the quality.
Anyhow thanks for doing this stuff I had been getting fairly burned out with a lot of the PU industry.
THanks very much bro… yeah I realized I was covering the mic on the phone at some point. I’ll be aware of it next time. Just saw you joined the forum… so here is an official WELCOME!
GLL,
First off, I love your work! Second, I have fucked about 8 girls, although they all were either not particularly attractive or just average looking. I am an attractive guy and would like to start picking up the 8′s, 9′s, and 10′s (above average looking girls and the hotties). Because I am not that experienced with such attractive girls, my question to you is , is there any difference between picking up the hotties then your average looking girl? Do you act like more of an asshole when you’re trying to game the hotties? Because in my limited experience when picking up the hotties, I think they find it attractive when you’re cocky, challenging, and almost combative ( obviously not physically), and kinda of a jerk. Please share your thoughts on this topic, and keep up the good work, GLL!
Mike
hey Chris you to update more video man good work
Nice work, and don’t worry what the creeps at Reddit think. Just Google ‘Reddit meetup’ and you’ll see why..
example : http://www.flickr.com/photos/someguy/5064229062/
hahaha that’s hilarious man. obviously you understand all the negative feedback they give me
Lolz@These Reddit losers. Cringeworthy? Creepy? Haha! Douchey? Maybe, and the girl was definitely shy, but let’s not forget she still liked you and walked with you to your car. Those guys just don’t see it because they probably never even approached a girl in their pathetic lives, let alone give them eye contact. Those guys are Nice Guys. Those guys also don’t ever get laid.
Anyway, let’s see the videos of you getting rejected and handling it the mature way! I’ve seen the one with Scotty putting the moves on the girl at the mall before she pulled away, so that kind of counts.
Hey man this question is inspired from your infield videos.
Im into the whole PUA thing as well as bodybuilding. So your videos are extremely helpful and relevant to my lifestyle. I havent been at game long, I injured myself so I havent done much of anything these past months. Ive been evaluating the game plan for when I am better. When I was gaming I was using more of a Mystery Method style.
Looking at your style. You seem to go Direct, use alot of kino (mainly that finger hold twirl move). Then you go right to qualifying or “small talk”. Then you go for a makeout then you pull.
I understand by the time you have gotten to qualifying/small talk youve kind of already got a feel if the girl is attracted to you or not.
The small talk seems to be really average though, what most PUAs would call lame. Questions like “where you from, what you do, etc”. Is there any reason you prefer this over more scripted qualifiers? Questions like “what did you wanna be when you were seven” etc? What most guys wouldnt do.
The kisses you seem to get effortlessly. You seem to use no dhv stories, no roleplaying, no cold reading, no push pull etc. Is there a reason for this?
Being injured and out of shape atm, I dont think your type of game would yeild the results for me it would have a year ago.
This is why I liked the idea of Indirect game, which as PUAs make it out to be. “Getting a girl attracted to you whom isnt attracted to begin with”. Do you ever do indirect type game? I mean if you ever approach a group of girls you must alter it from your direct type to not get cock blocked by her friends.
Sorry for so many questions. I just figured you were in my place years ago and managed to weed out all the bullshit and find out what works and what doesnt.
Hey John — please sign up for the forum– copy and paste this in there.
the reason I don’t ask PUA playful questions like “what did you wanna be when you were seven” etc?” is because I’m not a fucking loser. Cool masculine guys that fuck women don’t say shit like “what did you want to be when you were 7 yrs old.” or other “i hope this is creative/funny/exciting enough” shit. when you look good, you can ask girls “whats your name” “where are you from” and they will be excited to answer… when you are a loser you have to trick them into talking to you with little funny games “I’m a palm reader!” etc.etc.
btw chk this out- http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/01/29/overcoming-approach-anxiety-by-screening/
if you are into bodybuilding aka looking good, chance are- you aren’t a fucking loser PUA either.
just so you know- the PUAs dont get ANY pussy. seriously and im not not joking, they DO NOT get women. I spent 2 years + in LA around all the “Best” ones and they could never do anything close to this with a girl that was above below-average.
seriously– I wish I could respond more to your questions , i have 124comments to answer and I know what you are thinking cuz I’ve been there.
post your exact message in the forum and our guys will answer you in detail.
btw- I hope this answer wasnt crass or rude.. its not meant to be. you are going down a bad path (turning to PUA to understand ‘what attracts’ women).. please sign up for the forum
Chris,
You have a lot of interesting stuff on here. I’m not one to get on here and talk shit. I think you just need to specify what you are after here. You got a young girl into bed with you (presumably) Just make sure you distinguish that between trying to find a girl to be in a relationship with.
I like what you are doing. I think you are a brave individual. At some point though, you may realize that what you are doing is expressing a need to feed a damaged ego as a younger man. It’s not real. It’s all acting, even the love making. Love yourself for who you are and embrace what makes you unique. It’s clear you have come a long way in liking yourself and I commend you for what you are trying to do to help others. You won’t be complete though until you find the difference between learning to act like someone who is worthy of love and deeply feeling like it. Maybe you are already there. Just dont let go of individuality and don’t forget to listen to advice.
Congratulations on the success of your site and your self improvement. Continue to improve outside the realm of sexuality. Hopefully you already are.
Thanks Todd,
yeah this site is completely based on “GETTING LAID” and I try to hammer that point home at every turn, I do have a lot to say on relationships/emotional connection…. but in my opinion– theres already way too much of that stuff out there and a lot of the guys that “teach” it can’t get any pussy. further, in order to have a successful relationship- a guy needs to be able to GET LAID.. so that the girl doesn’t leverage that over him. Way too many guys are super needy in relationships because they cant get pussy, while their girl (however pretty/ugly she is) can get a nice big dick any night she wants.
this site is “evolving” all sort of directions… I just need to focus on beating AA and getting laid (via looks, style, social freedom) since that’s what will benefit the majority of the reading at this moment
Hey Chris. You make a valid point there. Beating AA? As in alcohol?
AA = Approach Anxiety
Hey Chris. First of I would like to thank you for everything. What you do is amazing.
I have a problem!! I am mr.creeper. I approach girls in top night clubs in NYC( Phd, lavo) and I talk to them and their friends. Often I make out; however, I never leave with them. I do not undetstand why?
Is there a way to maybe contact you?
From Russia with love
Gleb
Thanks man, thats very nice of you.
Clubs are not wonderful for cold approach, they are ‘okay’.. the problem is that girls come in groups and its only a small %% that can actually leave with you. in other words- the logistics are fucked. there’s a different approach to take at clubs (getting to know the promoters and building a social circle, so you ‘know’ everyone in there and have pre-/after-parties) it may seem like a lot of work but the dividends are huge. I’ll be talking about that later on…
Chris, thanks for answering my previous question. Do you actually meet with people and give them advice? Or it is only done online?
Sincerely, Gleb
No problem, since the goal is to really develop the blog- I can’t meet with people. I used to and might in the future. Scotty, however, still does his own workshops-
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/scottys-private-training/
Sorry you asked this question a bunch of times, If you have any specific questions– fire away. I’ll answer them in a video and then put the video on the forum
Heres my honest Opinion…… It looks like you are trying too hard.. And it also looks like desperate chasing a girl around saying “I LOVE YOU.”…….That sounds like a terrible idea to me, if it worked for you that’s cool, but nobody should try this tactic on girls in general, just a terrible idea all together. I know u offer a lot of advice on how to pick up girls on here and you do have a lot of interesting stuff, that I am still YET to read and watch and check out. This IMO was just a terrible way to go after a girl.. Just MY opinion of course…………
read this and tell me if you feel the same way
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/05/01/be-aggressive-pua/
the point is- im not trying to look good, im trying to put a girl in my car in less than 10 minutes
Hey GLL,
Thanks on the reply! Awesome, now lets get to talking…….I know what you mean by be aggressive, I understand that, I also understand the whole screening process ( i agree with you 100% to screen them ). My point is you don’t want to be too aggressive with females because then you start to look like a creep, a wierdo, and worst of all a guy who is desperate. I have talked to tons of girls myself, and being aggressive isn’t always the key to success. When you are smooth, screen them, and get them to be comfortable around you, that increases your results dramatically. My issue is, is that ALL the other guys (the competition) are all in it for the skin too. Females are constantly getting hit on each and everyday, and everybody knows guys are in it for the pussy, so you gotta be DIFFERENT. There is a quote that says “Seduce my mind and you can have my body”. The trick is to into females pants you gotta get in there heads. Women are more emotional and if you can connect with them and show them you are not in it just for the skin, you will get laid. If you just go straight for the kill, your results will decrease dramatically and you will be just like all the other guys out there that want the same thing. I’m not saying you should be a pussy either, but you don’t wanna be that guy that is just a douchbag aggressive either, it just does not work ( being too nice, or too much of a jerk ). From my experience what works, is being yourself, being confident, and not too over the top, get them to know you get them to trust you, then the game becomes very easy. Another important point is to make sure they understand you are interested in them (if not you are friend zoned). I wish it was that easy where I could just go up to any female, being mr.aggressive alpha male, but that does not work.. I have gotten so many numbers from a lot of chicks , and being too aggressive to them is a HUGE turn off, that gets them not want to text you or anything to do with you and that sucks!! Sure if you throw 100 darts at a dart board, you will get a few to hit the bullseye, but hitting on 100 girls each day, and only converting so many is a lot of work, however if you get them to like and trust you, you get that long term pussy whenever not just the one nighters. Just my thoughts of course, your websites are really cool though, so don’t think im being a hater, you seem like a cool dude, and I can respect that you did all this to help other guys out.
THanks for the reply Matt– 4 years ago I would totally agree with you, so bear w/ me.
When you say-
what do you mean by “results”?
phone numbers, laughs, girls that like you, connecting with women?
I only judge results on getting laid- fucking the girl. none of that other stuff anymore. it doesn’t matter. I’m not trying to connect with women, im trying to have sex with them. that is my goal, thats why this site is the only GET LAID website on the internet, not a “meet women” website. do you know what I mean
I don’t care if they think im a creep or they think I’m super cool, intelligent, funny, smooth. either they fuck me or they don’t.
I literally do not care what girls or people think of me (i put pictures of my dick on the internet)
that is social freedom, thats is having no anxiety.
its nice when they “like” me or think I’m cool or feel a “connection”- but if they dont have sex with it me– its not different than if they think im a creep.
im willing to “risk” looking like a creep to have more sex with girls.
does this make sense
this is so much different than the “meeting women” stuff that everyone teaches