Aggressive Pickup Video #3
Note: picture to the right is Julia Roberts. Has nothing to do with the video.
From Saturday, October 13th.
This seems to be everyone’s favorite. Thanks Youtube guys.
Girl is really hot, fun and basically the ‘type’ that I’m screening for.
The gameplan was to take her home, this type of thing isn’t common to do in a grocery store. The logistics alone (aka she’s in the PROCESS of shopping and probably has a car) are against us. I don’t usually go the fucking grocery store with this type of plan, but you never know…
I stuck to this gameplan because my friend’s place (actually my friend’s- friend), is 3-4 minutes away. This was the hottest girl I’ve seen in 2 weeks (and I get out a fair amount) so guess what– I’m gonna try and set something up.
And I do… she insists.
added: You know what? THIS is the type of approach I had no chance of even doing and the caliber girl that I could ONLY pull via my social circles before I started this shit in 2007. There was definitely a point that I thought I couldn’t ever do this, let alone film it. I’m happy with how these videos are going. I can chill and really give you all I have- not worrying about cameras, angles, audio (sorta) and other bullshit. This is some of the best stuff, like I said elsewhere- it would be disingenuous to tell you, “ohh.. this is only a taste of what I’m capable of! Buy my ebook/workshop/fake product for the real deal! Click here!” No. This is me at a high level. By the way, everything [information-related] is free and always will be.
The team effort with Erik and I (and this kid Carlos, this weekend) is going well. This is a team effort, we are all getting more comfortable and frankly wiser to doing these. I don’t “train” for these, we got the legal green light and we went out and shot them. Each video is 1gig+, the audio ain’t always solid.. so I do have to selective about which ones I upload. Perhaps I’ll put footage from the other into a longer video sometime. (continued below the video, disclaimer)
Video for Aggressive Video #3
Quick corrections-
- I say “i can read you like a book” and not “its a joke” at 6:03
- 14:10 I say “its such a slap in the face” (to bring meat to vegan party) and not “im not a dick”
I’ve heard some nice feedback for the video. Thanks.
I’ll admit it- I’m into this girl, she’s into me. This is just foreplay. We got excited about having sex with each other from the second I gave her the grocery cart back. It’s hard to see, but there’s something in my eyes that shows I’m excited (she has the same). This is different than the other approaches, even when some the girls that really liked me. This type of REAL chemistry is rare, it’s something that “takes two” to create. These are the ones I live for.
Without going into detail, I’ve seen her a bunch since. She is a quality person and just follows my lead. So much of that because of how that approach went down. Nothing like that will ever happen to her again. She knows it.
Okay enough about me.
I’ve been thinking though. And I’m being serious- Does this type of video benefit me or you more?
Granted it’s a minority, I’ve seen some comments scattered around SedFast, SoSuave, Youtube, etc. where guys, for some reason, get upset that they don’t think they will ever be able to do this.
First off- who cares. You only need above-average looks, style and social freedom to tag a ton of top-shelf chicks.
Second off- it’s unnecessary. I took this type of ‘approach’ because the opportunity presented itself. Would I have done it if I wasn’t being filmed? Maybe, maybe not. I’ve done it before. It doesn’t matter though, I could have just done the regular, “hey you’re attractive, etc. I wanted to see what you were like.” and that would have worked too. That would have been less sexy to put on video. Again.
But still, I know where some of you guys are coming from.
Partly because we needed to understand the legal parameters, partly because we didn’t have a great audio/video setup, we did the basic videos first. I’m glad I did too, even though it left the more advanced guys thinking there was a lot to be desired. Unless you are taking girls home in the middle of the day, you don’t need to do all this.
Don’t get me wrong, this one is good. Really good. I don’t know there’s REAL (yeah… actually REAL PEOPLE INTERACTING) videos that have this kind of stuff or the one where I leave with the other sexy girl in 8 minutes. Maybe there are. I don’t know. I’ll get a lot of traffic to GoodLookingLoser.com because of these videos, but I just want to make sure we have our priorities straight-
GET LAID.
GoodLookingLoser.com is not supposed to be entertainment, it shouldn’t be. With the amount of cool shit we see on TV, we are desensitized, crave more entertainment and tend to lose focus of why we are trying to learn something in the first place. I know I do sometimes. Personally, I’d rather provide useful stuff than entertainment. I swear to God when I say that.
Entertainment doesn’t usually change lives or make anyone better.
If it motivates you, great. I’m happy. That’s not a bad thing.
But for the guys that are SERIOUS about getting RESULTS, please keep perspective- do what works and forget how entertaining I/you are in the process. Get Laid. Win.
I’m serious.

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Watching this video actually made my dick hard. Love the girl
haha thanks.. yeah seriously $$$$
she smelled like she just got out of the shower too, amazing
was holding her feet about 1h:50m later!!!
Hope you sucked those toes!
hahah, not my thing.. but if u approach a girl like this (shopping cart or not) she’s down for anything pretty much
I have never witnessed a pickup this good on video. Being able to create fun drama with sexual tension and using both the negative and positive range of expressions like this is a sign of great social skills. It attracts the girl and makes her feel a genuine rollercoaster of emotions, which they crave for.
I intend to learn these skills so I can improve my interactions and dates by giving the girl more emotions by teasing her and almost upsetting her…. but not quite. Right now my conversation is a little too boring/unemotional compared to this.
Yeah there’s definitely elements of that.. we are so focused on eachother when we sit down, its crazy. The other part is– this was a crazy interaction, I could do 500more approach and not find chemistry like this. our personalities lined up, and the excitement is because we wanted fuck eachother and all the ‘unknown’ so to speak
There’s something surprisingly romantic about this video; it put me in a good mood. Both she and GLL are trying hard in their lives to figure out something important to them (health for her and intimacy for him) and you could see a spark between them. It brought me out of my own analytical mind to the point where I went out and had a SNL which is not too usual for me. I was able just to go out and enjoy an evening where I thought of having that kind of spark with people and it was better than any “strategy”. I suppose I also worked with GLL’s premise that sometimes they’re already into you and you just have to lead them home after you notice that instead of “creating attraction”.
Thanks for writing in Al-
It’s interesting you say that (romantic), I generally don’t throw that type of perspective into GLL (i do sometimes, like with the ‘dont cheat on your wife’ post), but you are right about that… We obviously been hanging out a lot since and its exactly along the lines you say. It’s to the point where she’ll drop whatever she’s doing and come see me if I want her to. That spark is nothing I can create, or she can create.. it takes two and a lot of things to line up that are beyond my control. I obviously can’t promise another video like this, it’s very random, but there’s not even a FAKE video that has this connection thing… its impossible to fake or act out. you are totally right
You guys seem to have a lot in common on a deep level, spontaneity, smart, striving. And s-e-e-e-xy…haha.. I doubt she’d mind finding out about your dick exercises or dating advice site and would probably crack up about it. Whatever happens it’s great to meet people that you can enjoy time with on that level. Cheers to you both.
This is the kind of interactions that makes it all worth of effort. BTW I see another bits from mr. “P” book, so maybe in proper context his stuff is good (by propper context I mean a girl is into you but you do not want to bore her out of her mind).
yeah I suppose so, I def. liked P’s stuff when I got into this.. it fit my personality pretty well, but I didn’t know how/where to draw the line on the funny man stuff. in this type of thing.. im sorta “bullying” the girl, which is more ballsy than this ‘lighthearted teasing’ stuff that most people push (little sister)— that stuff is decent too, but guys gotta make sure to keep it masculine and keep it at least a little physical
This vid got me impressed on what is possible. I can totally see me doing this. I pretty much knew you could get away with anything after you pulled her away onto your lap. And once she started playing with your hands as well you playing with hers. At that point I knew you had it in the bank with her for the makeout and her suggested meetup. Good work from somebody who actually knows how to escalate during the daytime without it being weird! I’m gonna use this for my next day game sets. Site is looking good. keep up the awesome job. and keep posting awesome shit.
Thanks bro— more on the way
Chris,dude….It CANNOT be this easy. Come on man…seriously ? Hats off to you man.I could only
dream of doing something like this.Your skills are completely off the chart.Smooth,flawless,stellar
performance on your part . Despite my advanced age…I’m only at the “Excuse me,do you have
the time ?” phase …with no follow-up.
Conituned Success,Bro !
Hey MM– thank you very much. I’ve been at this a long time though
My hope is to get guys to our level in a faster time than it took us. Plus help them understand this “game” so they don’t get discouraged in the process.
I remember you from some old David D Videos, and you had this aura like you should have been right up there coaching with the likes of Wygant, and Mehow. I just stumbled upon this website and im glad i did.
ha, thank you, seems like so long ago
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/09/19/david-deangelo-loves-good-looking-loser/
all that advice was nearly worthless, i came to find out
I’m 29/f, and this turned me on
Wow.. I just stumbled on your shit and started watching, I saw the dodgy videos with Scott I wasn’t too impressed because of the audio, camera angles I guess.. But now you got the right gear.. That was awesome, everything seemed so natural and spontaneous.. Pick up without the bull shit, you have a new fan from the uk! Keep it up bro.
Thanks man!! yeah im going to get mic’ed when we do them again
i love her voice. her voice alone does it for me. plus she seems like a really sweet girl. good looking. i’m in Massachusetts. I’m not sure I could pull this off without getting kicked out of the store or as you said get hit with a lead pipe. haha.
shes cool, we still see each other to this day (not as often as back in november though)
dont worry about getting kicked out of stores, just leave politely if security bothers you, and the lead pipe hasnt happened to me (or Scotty) yet haha