Pickup Video #1
Labor Day (today, September 3rd) “pickup” video.
The thumbnail (picture) to the right is Rebecca Gayheart, this girl looked like a young Rebecca Gayheart. No, this is not Rebecca Gayheart in the video though.
This is basic as it gets. Not too dynamic. There’s no reason to try to “play to the camera” for audience effect, I’m showing what I actually do when grabbing some [sexually available] girl’s phone number.
The same dialogue I always talk about using, moderate touching, in and out.
The only difference between this and “average guy game” as explained in “If I Approached 100 Chicks Would I Get Some Pussy?” is the 3 times I touch her in the less than 2 minute interaction. On paper, that’s considered “aggressive,” it’s not really aggressive- but remember, I’m just getting her number.
I’d rather show how basic this can be rather than pollute innocent minds suggesting that complicated, totally unnecessary, otherwise attention whorish techniques are somehow necessary or even desirable… in this video anyway.
There’s opening commentary on the first video, the second video contains an overall commentary.
Interaction starts at 2:30 in the video.
The gameplan is to screen, make small talk and take a solid number from this girl that’s working.
You should always have a gameplan, it should be one of two things-
- If logistics are not good: Screen, small talk, take number
- If logistics are good: Screen, small talk, escalate, take her out of the place (in any order)
My gameplan was #1 for the reasons discussed below (plus we’re doing a video).
Good Looking Loser Picks Up Cute Girl Working at the Mall
Interaction begins at ~2:30.
I’ll try to get this video some subtitles (captions) soon. All the audio is pretty nice and clear.
After you watch the video, look at this- “One of the main things I wanted you to see”
Again, the gameplan was not to take her out of the place, she’s working and my place is about ~30 minutes from the place we were at. So I screen and don’t necessarily escalate, she gets that I’m looking at her as a sexual object because I touch her a bunch of times. She doesn’t resist and is totally happy to have me take her #. The whole thing was under 2 minutes. There’s no reason to stand and hover around making jokes and shit. haha
even though im mad funny, right?
Here’s my commentary on the video-
If I were to follow up, I’d hit her with the traditional screening text “hey sexy” or “sexy bitch” or “hey sexy bitch,” something tells me that she’d respond right away. I actually think I have other plans for this girl though, I have a friend that digs (obsessed with) these cute wavy hair girls so I’m hooking him up… she’ll probably like him, most girls do.
There’s some familiar “PUA techniques” in this video. I’m not against guys using them, I do sometimes. It’s not the “techniques” that makes this “work.” It’s your looks, style and social freedom (which reflects confidence). The community will explain how these techniques “create attraction,” that is not the case, or if they do – its a fairly insignificant amount.
The most important thing is that you establish a physical dialogue with the girl to screen her. She’ll either let you touch her or she’ll pull away. If she pulls away, try again a minute or two later. If you are just going for a girl’s number, screen her, if you get a positive reaction, make some small talk and take her number. You don’t need to feel her up or hover around making funny jokes.
If you are grabbing a phone number, I don’t think it needs to look THAT much different than average guy game, PUA “game,” or “just talk to her,” — just make sure you touch the girl a couple of times. Force the girl to tell you if she’s in or out. It should be pretty obvious.
After you watch I highly encourage you take a look at the following discussions-
- Video Discussion: “Simple and Unimpressive: Works Best?”
- Video Discussion: “Good Looking Loser Isn’t Entirely Smooth… And You Don’t Need To Be Either”
Questions, comments, whatever, hit me up below-

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Aha you should asked her who lies more! Or if she flosses before of after she brushes :p good simple daytime pickup!
haha i do, check this out-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdKgCkbOAds&list=UUa_eGOVghNusdBw3XGcnFtw&index=2&feature=plcp
SMH.. Yea because that’s what works..
Where you been playboy??????
eating pussy i hope!
more vids coming on wednesday
fuck its awesome seeing screening in action for real. man it seems so simple and natural. very cool.
thanks bro… yeah nothing complicated.. separated from “just talk to her”/”average guy game” just with 1-3physical advannces
See I love this video!
Why? Cause you make it seem so simple and it makes you realize that there is nothing magical going on!
Great video Chris!
Yo thanks buddy. I’ll get some more dynamic ones later. I only talked to 4 girls yesterday to do this.
One was this video,
one was the “seated” mall video- http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/09/04/pickup-girls-video-2/
the other was the ‘fleshlight’ contest video- http://www.goodlookingloser.com/forum/?mingleforumaction=viewtopic&t=592.0#postid-4865
One girl wasn’t available, it was clear from the start
thats basically how it goes
Yeah I’ve seen the fleshlight video as well. That was hilarious
Next time you should try it with a real fleshlight :p, you can ask her to put her finger in it
This is fucking gold!! It’s one thing to read about this shit, it’s another thing entirely to actually see it in action. Chris, you are making the world a better place!
Thanx TM- I know these are long overdue, I’ll have a bunch more soon
sweet bro!
is it too PUA?????? both of these girls wouldn’t let me talk so I couldnt run my new routine.
but for real, this is kinda the ‘top level’ of PUA… this basic phone thing…. Geoff Magic’s jaw would drop, I’m more dynamic than this I promise! haha
Now do/upload some aggressive videos!!!
Planning on it
Chris, I know this girl was at work, but do you ever try to just pull a girl immediately to go somewhere and fuck a few minutes after meeting them? I’ve heard urban legends of this kind of thing and was wondering if you’ve ever experienced it yourself.
Hey TM- that’s a good question, answer is- yes and no.
The times that I have done that, that was the gameplan… meaning- my place was 5-10minutes away. And I wasn’t planning on “in and out” type of interaction. I talked a little about ‘game plan’ in the intro (or follow up?) to the video. When I lived by the beach (Santa Monica), this would be the plan, most of the time. For a good period of time, I had all day tuesday, thursday and friday off. So I’d kinda camp out near the beach or pool (maybe reading/studying this nutrition thing/whatever) and find that liked me (and had a few minutes)
If this girl wasn’t working (and my place was 5-10 minutes)
The only additional question i’d ask would be “so what are you up to” or “what do you have going on today”.
If she was free, I’d say “cool lets take a walk,” and start walking in the direction of my spot. Once I got there, I’d invite her in for a drink (in LA it’s not uncommon during the day) or “lets go inside, its so hot out, my place has nice AC going” “yo you know that youtube video I was talking about, i can show you really quick, my place is right over there”…. remember the girl is super excited and sorta knows was she’s getting into.
come to think of it, the reaction this girl gave… she’d definitely be game for this type of thing.
That’s my personal style though, I have taken girls into ‘more private’ areas of the malls (we got mostly outdoor malls here), fire exits, stairwells where there’s no fire alarm or door sensor. I used to work a some malls back in Washington DC so I sorta know which stairwells/walkways have a fire alarm (most don’t)… but to tell you the truth, its not really my thing… I’d rather either have a girl to my place or take a solid number and do it later. Scotty has more experience than I with the “take her to a random place” and fuck her.Probably more experience than anyone I know.
Awesome. What exactly is your method for pulling girls to a more private area of the mall? I want to learn how to do this.
yo just want to have an area in mind beforehand.. that is so key no matter where you are mall/bar/street/hotel/whenever… you basically just start taking a walk toward that area… and just say, “hey i want to show you this spot,” or “lets sneak over here” just something like that. its all just a gameplan to execute
So you’re saying
Social Freedom + Logistics + Girls Who Are DTF = Get Laid
Thanks
These videos were not just “regular game” because it was not Approaching just to Qualify (oh I hope she likes me, or I think maybe she likes me). It wasn’t even Qualifying in the sense of to see if I “like” her. Then, if we “like” each other, to go on dates as bf/gf for weeks and even MONTHS (with the most happening physically being holding hands, and a kiss). Therefore, these were not about if we both “liked” each other or not.
The “Opener” and the conversation can be about almost ANYTHING. For most guys during most Days the interaction is going to be quick (a few minutes) and be about Touching (a few times to see if she STAYS) and asking for her number to later call to set up a Meet. If a girl is not available at all she would (maybe get upset, possibly give a wrong number or not say her number and LEAVE). The girls in these videos are happy to be with Chris and they talk in an interested tone/laugh/smile/look/STAY/and give their numbers, then when Chris calls for a Meet-Up they are excited (turned on and available).
The “minset/intent” of Screening is not to Qualify to see if we both “like” each other to then as a bf/gf go on “regular dates” for months. If going for a SDL there would be more “intimate touching” to extend the…Interaction. The kind of touching that is done in these videos is what is going to be done most often in a public place during the day when QUICKLY going for MANY numbers to follow up with later. The midset/intent/objective of Screening (Touching) is to find the girls who are “s*xually available/DTF.” The girls in these videos (who stayed when being Touched a few times by a man, and who gave their numbers) are likely to go on the Meet-Up.
yup you got it mang!
These videos are awesome, not like those Pick-Up gayru videos that are staged! I waited for these for quite a while.
More coming, the day time ones are fairly ‘tame’
Cool!
I swear I’ve many times met girls who responded as positively or even more so but I still couldn’t get their numbers or take them with me, depending on the game plan (I always make sure they’re not busy if I plan taking them home). I’m trying to tone kino down.
Cool, this is the real shit.
Hey Chris great stuff I use the spin move all the time, my question is I’m a good looking guy, but it seems to me the only hard time i have of approaching girls are in the gym? I just don’t want to be that guy that tries to hit on all the girls while their working-out or when they got there ipod playing even though were both making eye contact. Any tips you can give me on how to approach a girl in the gym? Even better can you make a video in the gym picking up girls? Thanks
Hey Miggs– no doubt. I’m gonna do some videos at the gym actually. Stay tuned… I used to touch chicks in there, I don’t so much anymore– minus grabbing their bicep or something. It’s not that necessary, and girls who are sweaty w/o makeup dont want to be touched that much.
rule of thumb-
in general, ANYWHERE, if a girl is checking you out, you can say ANYTHING.
the work is already done, just gotta see if SHES cool or DTF
“hey i usually dont do this at the gym, but Ive seen you around here and finally wanted to introduce myself…”
hi there
“I’m Miggs415″
hi, im Chick415
(handshake)
“Damn your getting ripped, hope you arent juicing” “you’re gonna end up like those guys on Jersey Shore”
(grab her arm)
SMALL TALK
“okay I’m gonna get back to my workout, nice meeting you… tell you what– what a number I can text you at?”
OUT
if you haven’t seen the girl before-
“hey I don’t usually do this at the gym, but I know most of the people here and your a new face, so I wanted to come introduce myself”
**if you look like you workout hard, the girl probably won’t think you are “one of those guys” that wastes peoples time at the gym
but even still-
if she digs you, she digs you
Dude this is like the same shit I do on the regular! I know from experience that it works but often i get alot of flakes. Got any input or ideas i could try out?
Hey TG– yaeh its pretty basic on taking numbers.
re: flakes
its hard to say, this isnt often a technique thing- you could make more small talk with the girl, exchange commonalities , ask her questions/tell her about yourself.
otherwise, the solution to getting pussy/reducing flakes/meeting women/everything is
MAXing out your looks, style and social freedom… they all play into the interaction at the most significant level
does that make sense?
that pua video was hella funny “who lies more GIRLS OR GUYS”!? hand gesture n shit lmao
haha thanks mang
Hey bro. congrats for your site, it is really interesting. I’m french, and I’m in SF. It is kind of hard to talk to girl like that in a shop or in the street here in a foreign country. But I will definitely try, cause I’m french and that can be a +. Or not but… anyway. Just wanted to talk about the tao of badass, that they try everywhere to sell to you. I downloaded a pirate version and I read some stuffs. It is interesting but your stuffs, your site, all what you do is damn better and free !!! I like you. You look honest. I ‘m sure you are cause ” you are the oasis in that huge ocean of bullshit” everywhere you surf.
I did a lot of researches but never use money for dating or PE stuffs. Now I did. (bathmate) and I’ll try the basics stuffs, number and shit before trying the same things at the club one friday for more agressive experimentations.
So, I saw the twirl , no, the spin stuffs in the tao of badass. And you do it so well. I’m sure it is very important. It looks like nothing but put the girl in a new position. she now thinks she a princess and she wants to go to the ball. She’s more open with that tricks right? I also saw that looking at the lips of the girl when she’s talking, introduce in her mind that, you want to have sex with her. something like that. What do you think about this tao? have you got some special tricks?
But nice spinn… I love that. You did it in all the videos I saw.
You rock man. seriously… You talk a lot, but not for nothing, and that’s a pleasure to listen to you. you’re precise, clear, professional and its great.
I just discover you but thanks. Nice job. Keep going. Be carefull, some people can maybe try to hurt you, you do a too much good job. for free…. so thank you really much bro.
Thank you again
this is our approach: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/04/21/screening-game/
the newer videos are better examples of ‘screening’ though… since I’m taking things further than just a phone #